If I were either party here - buyer or seller - I would go above and beyond to get my near $1,000 back. With all due respect to both parties, it seems there is a lack of sufficient evidence on both sides. Losing a money order, despite being made out to Cash, if I'm not mistaken, is no excuse. I gave advice on how to retrieve a lost receipt. Without sufficient documentation, neither case can be settled; however, I'd advise both parties file their complaints and let the FBI determine who is at fault. Like I said, they investigate Internet fraud. Small claims does not. Bantering back and forth here hasn't accomplished much in regards to getting your money back.
Furthermore, anyone with experience in these types of cases doesn't take the lawyer/police card seriously. Lawyers do not waste their time with small claims and neither do police. FBI IC3 is the best course of action here for all of you, but remember, he who provides the best documentation wins.
I hope to see this resolved and the results posted, though be advised it does take some time.
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