dprince
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Although I do feel for her (whoever she is) and what she is going through now, I don't feel we here on Fauna really needed to be lied to.
Once someone lies to me and I find out the trust takes a LONG while to kick back in again.
I mean, would we really have had that hard a time with it if she had just said that she had had a relationship (of some sort) with Bob and that she is now afraid because she found out what a fruit loop he is?
I know I wouldn't.
He already knew her "real" name, so there was no need to hide it here. He already knew where she lived as he sent the snakes to her.
She was playing with fire on the internet. Having fun with your life and being proud of yourself and your body is a great thing. I think everyone should be comfortable in their own skin, BUT like she found out, you really don't know just who is on the other end of that webcam or looking at your pictures. There are many people who went to meet their "special someone" from the net who are not alive now to tell about it. Thank God she never went to meet him.
If anything, I hope she learned that not only herself but her children could be hurt by the things she does on the net (or anywhere else for that matter).
She could have found the same amount (or perhaps better) support here if she just laid out all her cards on the table initially.
I still feel for her and what she has to go through with "The Fruit Loop" and sincerely hope that she gets the authorities to really do something about him before he hurts her or someone else.
He can say he didn't threaten her or her children, but the things he wrote and the way he wrote them led me to believe that's exactly what he did.
Lisa, Marissa, Marie? I still feel for you, Hun, and I am glad you let folks know he's still out there being his usual charming self, but it'll take just a bit for the chapping to heal on my backside with the lying.
And Deb, I don't believe she deliberately shook anything to get Bob to do what he did. He used her just as he uses everybody...for his own ends. He states he has no conscience and I am inclined to agree. He has no moral compass and it's ALL about him in his world. I have no doubt he would do anything to anybody should the opportunity present itself for him to get just what he, and he alone, wants.
He is incapable of love and would not recognise it if it bit the end of his nose off. Heck, in the very e-mail he writes that he sent her the snakes because he "loves" her he disparaged both her and every woman on the planet in the very first sentence!
Lisa, Marissa (heck, I'd really love to know what to call you!) I hope you get this straightened out. I hope you've learned that lying to those you've asked for help or sympathy is not the way to go about things. Please post how this all has worked out for you.
While I am a little sore about feeling decieved, it won't last forever. You have a home here on Fauna, if you so choose, you just have to be honest with us.
Maggie, I don't know you, but darn, this is a great post!! Thanks for articulating your thoughts (and mine!! LOL) in such a fantastic, thoughtful, considerate way.
