#1- how long do they need to be put together to breed? I put mine together for 5 minutes, once a week until the female is gravid. I do not breed them inbetween clutches.
#2-have any of you guys seen them breed..what goes on in the process ( if you have)? yes, within a minute Sheo does his thing. he will run around, bob, bite her and push her tail up. they can stay linked for 30 seconds to a couple minutes. male will let go and the female will wander away.
#3-if they breed and she comes up gravid, how long after her first clutch will she need a break from breeding and when she does get a break how long until she could breed again?
they will lay 3-7 clutches from one mating. unless it's a super-huge female, don't breed inbetween clutches. if she can't handle more than one clutch, she's not ready to breed.
you can breed a healthy female every year.
#4- how will we know she is gravid? you weigh her and you will see her put on weight. you can feel the eggs as marble's in the stomach
#5- how will we know she is ready to lay eggs? will pace and dig and often will not eat a day or two before laying.
#6- what is the best way to set up an incubator so no babies will die while in incubation? buy one. use perilite in a 2:1 ratio with water. i incubate low - 81-82*F.