It's been only 5 days when I got tired of all the BS concerning the overt conflict between kingsnake.com (JeffB) and FaunaClassifieds.com (me) and posted my change in policy concerning this area of interest. The post is still there for anyone missing it and wanting to check on the discussion. Some of the earlier posts were deleted in compliance with the policy change, so a true picture is no longer there of the total discussion.
Be that as it may, much of the earlier discussion was generally supportive of my decision, but now it appears that there is more dissention and disagreement with this policy. I make no bones about telling people that I will make mistakes trying to do what is best. That is just par for the course, I guess. And the arguments are persuasive, but not overwhelming in regards to my changing or rescinding the above mentioned policy.
The crux of the matter is, what is BEST for as many people as possible? My feelings on the matter is that things got carried away, and the resulting bad blood is benefiting no one. I had thought that by making the first move to bury the hatchet, perhaps things would calm down somewhat. However, some of the general consensus believes that it is a fruitless effort. Matter of fact, if anything, it may make things worse as there would now be no check on what the other site does, and no avenue for people to speak out about such things in a public forum. I don't know if I agree with this or not, but I cannot deny it's possibility. Even so, I don't know that this site would have much, if any, influence over the other site anyway.
The fact of the matter is, I don't really expect anything out of JeffB as far as a response is concerned. It was not done with that intent. The intent was to get this whole thing off of my shoulders so I could get on with other things. Two people just can't keep on taking punches at each other if one just leaves he arena.
But the fact that I stated that ANY discussion about kingsnake.com on FaunaClassifieds.com is now verboten is in some people's opinion a swing way too far in the other direction.
Is it? Is it really any of mine, or participants of this site's business what is going on over at another site? How many people would just consider this as petty sniping by a competing site?
Basically, I consider this site as belonging to all of you. I am just the caretaker. So I need some advice. What should this site be in concern with this sort of issue? I tend to favor bringing the focus back to just dealing with transactions between people concerning animals as well as the merchandise directly tied to the care and maintenance of those animals. Nothing more, nothing less. But the argument is being made that I have just as much right to do that as I would to be concerned about the actions of other websites within this type of business. I just haven't brought myself to the point of agreeing with that argument, however.
So let me lay some of this into YOUR hands. What SHOULD this site be to YOU? I am stating this in relation to kingsnake.com, but if this is true, then I would probably have a difficult time limiting discussions to only this website. Others would likley be scrutinized as well if their actions warranted it. So this would mean more than just a single other website.
I figure a poll is in order. You all can tell me what you think is best and what you want out of this site. I know what I prefer, as it is already on record, but I try real hard not to be heavy handed with decisions made here that affect everyone.
So I am asking your help and guidance in this issue.
Thanks.
Be that as it may, much of the earlier discussion was generally supportive of my decision, but now it appears that there is more dissention and disagreement with this policy. I make no bones about telling people that I will make mistakes trying to do what is best. That is just par for the course, I guess. And the arguments are persuasive, but not overwhelming in regards to my changing or rescinding the above mentioned policy.
The crux of the matter is, what is BEST for as many people as possible? My feelings on the matter is that things got carried away, and the resulting bad blood is benefiting no one. I had thought that by making the first move to bury the hatchet, perhaps things would calm down somewhat. However, some of the general consensus believes that it is a fruitless effort. Matter of fact, if anything, it may make things worse as there would now be no check on what the other site does, and no avenue for people to speak out about such things in a public forum. I don't know if I agree with this or not, but I cannot deny it's possibility. Even so, I don't know that this site would have much, if any, influence over the other site anyway.
The fact of the matter is, I don't really expect anything out of JeffB as far as a response is concerned. It was not done with that intent. The intent was to get this whole thing off of my shoulders so I could get on with other things. Two people just can't keep on taking punches at each other if one just leaves he arena.
But the fact that I stated that ANY discussion about kingsnake.com on FaunaClassifieds.com is now verboten is in some people's opinion a swing way too far in the other direction.
Is it? Is it really any of mine, or participants of this site's business what is going on over at another site? How many people would just consider this as petty sniping by a competing site?
Basically, I consider this site as belonging to all of you. I am just the caretaker. So I need some advice. What should this site be in concern with this sort of issue? I tend to favor bringing the focus back to just dealing with transactions between people concerning animals as well as the merchandise directly tied to the care and maintenance of those animals. Nothing more, nothing less. But the argument is being made that I have just as much right to do that as I would to be concerned about the actions of other websites within this type of business. I just haven't brought myself to the point of agreeing with that argument, however.
So let me lay some of this into YOUR hands. What SHOULD this site be to YOU? I am stating this in relation to kingsnake.com, but if this is true, then I would probably have a difficult time limiting discussions to only this website. Others would likley be scrutinized as well if their actions warranted it. So this would mean more than just a single other website.
I figure a poll is in order. You all can tell me what you think is best and what you want out of this site. I know what I prefer, as it is already on record, but I try real hard not to be heavy handed with decisions made here that affect everyone.
So I am asking your help and guidance in this issue.
Thanks.