Post the emails Anthony. Not just a story telling your side of it.
My side is this:
1) I order gecko from Anthony. He sends email asking if date will be okay to ship, to which I send a reply of yes that is great.
2) 2 days after the gecko was supposed to arrive, I emailed asking for a refund of my money since My. Caponetto is not interested in holding up his end of the deal. The weather's getting cold again and I have no desire to wait another month.
3) Receive a reply saying he never heard from me that the shipping date was okay with me, tells me he's not canceling an order and will not refund my money. Tells me good luck getting a refund through paypal as they usually side with the seller. No "I'm sorry", not even any humanity in the email. Just matter-of-fact and good luck with that. If he won't 'voluntarily cancel the order', that makes me think I must take the gecko. THAT is why I bring up the gecko again. There was no offer to ship asap, as he claims.
4) He puts gecko back up for sale. To which yes I did get extremely angry. To tell a customer you're not giving them their money back for an error on YOUR end and to put the animal back up for sale? I was shocked that he's grown his business to this point taking money and giving nothing in return to unhappy customers. The animal being put back up for sale was not explained to me, as he claims it was.
5) I file with paypal, since he's made it clear to me that I'm not getting anywhere with him. If he's not sending the gecko, I certainly want my money back. Is that SO wrong?
6) He sends me a refund a couple days after that, and I don't figure what happened is enough for a BOI post since he did eventually refund me. But I don't think refunding my money should be an order for me to keep my mouth shut forever should the opportunity arise.
7) Receive email from Anthony this morning threatening legal actions for my "slander".
And here are emails. People can decide for themselves whether or not you handled it well. I don't feel I was a bit unjustified in being angry for the way you spoke to me.
fromShadera Lorrain <
[email protected]>
toAnthony Caponetto <
[email protected]>
dateThu, Feb 12, 2009 at 8:55 PM
subjectRe: Anthony Caponetto Reptiles: Order #10372 Next Shipping Day
mailed-bygmail.com
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I don't feel I'm being unreasonable. This is an error on your end, and I feel that asking for a refund rather than waiting what could possibly be weeks before the animal is shipped when you had a perfect whole week to ship and didn't nor did you contact me is reasonable. It wasn't due to weather, it was due to you not paying attention. You didn't have to go from 0 - jerk. You could have explained, apologized, and tried to set up an alternative. How do you expect people to react when you tell them you're not refunding their money and then relist the animal?!?
I've asked you to communicate with me, yet you refuse. The paypal claim can always be cancelled, but I'm not taking it down without reason to. If you're going to hold me to your terms that don't give clause for a mess up on your end, then I have no choice but to hang onto paypal for what I feel is rightfully mine.
Or, if you want to stick to your word, that you gave in emails saying that you wouldn't cancel the transaction, you need to let me know what's going on with the gecko. Did you resell it, do you plan to still ship to me...what?
I would appreciate a response.
Shadera
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On Thu, Feb 12, 2009 at 5:19 PM, Shadera Lorrain <
[email protected]> wrote:
Please reply as to what you intend to do. If you cancel this order after you told me you would not voluntarily do so, I have no choice but to go to the BOI. Others should be warned that this is how you react when customers are not happy because you aren't getting emails which isn't the customer's fault.
I've filed a claim with paypal, I feel I have no other choice.
Shadera
On Thu, Feb 12, 2009 at 4:57 PM, Shadera Lorrain <
[email protected]> wrote:
YOUR words. Bolded, underlined, and italicized. You have no right to relist that animal.
On Thu, Feb 12, 2009 at 3:28 PM, Anthony Caponetto <
[email protected]> wrote:
Hi Shadera,
1. I never got any sort of response to the email that I sent last week, so I held off on shipping. It's very clearly explained on my terms page that I will never ship an animal without having explicit confirmation that the customer will be there.
2. As per my terms, the ones you were supposed to read before checking the box at the check-out page, there are no cancellations on animal orders and this expressly includes animals that are ordered when weather makes shipping difficult.
If you'd like to file a chargeback with your credit card company, you're entitled to do so and see what happens in a couple months (sometimes they hold customers to the terms and sometimes they don't) but I will not voluntarily cancel this order because there was a shipping mix up.
Thanks!
Anthony Caponetto
www.ACReptiles.com
www.CarpetPythons.net
www.Ciliatus.com
-----Original Message-----
From: Shadera Lorrain [mailto:
[email protected]]
Sent: Thursday, February 12, 2009 12:15 PM
To: Anthony Caponetto
Subject: Re: Anthony Caponetto Reptiles: Order #10372 Next Shipping Day
Hi Anthony. I thought this gecko was going to ship this last Tuesday? I gave you the benefit of the doubt, figured you were busy, and waited until today to see if he would show up. This week has been beautiful warmer weather and I have received several other shipments of reptiles during this break.
Unfortunately, we go back to freezing temps next week.
No communication from you and you didn't ship on the agreed date..?
Please refund my money at your earliest convenience.
Shadera
On Wed, Feb 4, 2009 at 8:48 PM, Shadera Lorrain <
[email protected]> wrote:
Hi Anthony.
Wednesday works great for me. Thanks, I appreciate the email!
Shadera
On Wed, Feb 4, 2009 at 7:06 PM, Anthony Caponetto <
[email protected]> wrote:
Hi Shandra,
Unfortunately I will be gone all day on Monday...how does Wednesday look (thinking we could ship Tuesday) for you?
Cresties definitely take the cold better than pythons, but anything under 32 is still freezing, no matter what species. lol
Thanks!
Anthony Caponetto
www.ACReptiles.com
www.CarpetPythons.net
www.Ciliatus.com