Well I guess it's time I post in here.
I stood up for Ashley because I thought the one case of the BCL was properly quarantined and I didn't read the entirety of the necropsy results of her burmese python.
I purchased 2 Bolivian boas from Ashley. I pretreated them for mites and put them into a PROPER quarantine upon arrival. away from the rest of my collection. I knew from another friend his snakes at her house had mites, so I didn't want to take any chances. I'm glad I listened.
After the information posted in this thread and lack of attached addendum to the burmese pythons' necropsy, I'm now greatly concerned for the health of my animals I purchased from her. I contacted her IMMEDIATELY when I noticed mites. I hadn't seen any to begin with and I thought I was in the clear. I had a nagging feeling to check them after Elizabeth found mites on her Bolivians purchased from Ashley.
I went and squeezed the scales on the bellies of the Bolivians and what do you know, mites. I treated them AGAIN, and have since seen mites dying off (in the water bowl and the papertowels).
After treating them, I showered, had clothes brought to me, and checked my collection in my main snake room. Not one single mite on any of my snakes. I even checked my trigger happy White Lipped Python (who anyone who knows the story of this snake knows she likes to fight people, I was terrified) and not ONE single mite. Notaone.
I contacted Ashley about the mites and she didn't even immediately offer an apology, which hurt me a little, considering I thought of her as a good friend. No big deal, I figured she was stressed.
I think it was ~4-5 days later, not a peep from her asking how the snakes are doing, I contacted her over my growing concerns for these snakes' health, my collections potential health if I ever moved the Bolivians out of QT, I would be DEVASTATED for killing them. I sent Ashley a few instant messages while she was logged onto facebook chat and AIM. No response.
I text her and asked her if she saw my IMs, and I wanted to talk to her about my concerns with the Bolivians. She said "Uhh, what concerns?"
Now at this point, I am pissed OFF. What concerns you ask? I told her I didn't want to fight and I was concerned for the health of these animals and that SHE needed to pay for these animals to be IBD tested, and I was no longer willing to keep them in my house and watch them die, and be out $700. Silence. For hours. I finally sent her a message on facebook telling her I wanted to hear a resolution to this issue by 10pm EST on 12/22/2010. Just a plan. Whether she was willing to give me a refund.
I wake up around 11am, and she was logged into redtailboa.net and just never bothered to respond to my facebook email till 4pm. She said that she needed to discuss the issue with Ryan, her husband, and that she is not avoiding me. There was no "I will give you a refund by x date" or anything. It was just a "I won't hear from Ryan until 10-2 CST and will give you an answer then."
I'm curious what the answer is to. I told her she needed to refund me the money for the animals and the amount necessary to ship them back to her, and i want it done by Friday. I understand that the holidays are here, but I am NOT going to lose out on $700 to someone I THOUGHT was a good friend and completely avoided me about a VERY SERIOUS health issue.
I will post the copy of the email I sent and her response, if necessary, but her response was the same as the one she gave Elizabeth.