Hi, I haven't read every post in this conversation, but knowing Chaz I got the jist of it and I read all the important bits too.
When I saw the screenshots of those inappropriate messages he sent that girl, I started crying because I thought that those were shots of my conversations with him.
I was also a minor, he was 27 and I was 17 when we started talking. He gave me a lot of bad advice on breeding leopard geckos, including that its okay to breed females at 35 grams and that what people don't know won't upset them.
He told me a story about how he once killed one of his leopard geckos by sealing her in a container with rubbing alcohol for an hour and leaving for work.
About his military status, he told me he used to be a soldier and retired early because he sustained a spinal injury. He said he served for 4 years.
He always talked about how much older than me he was and how he was much more experienced than me. Not just in reptiles...
Me and him kinda started dating. He complimented me a lot, often just so I would send him nudes. Remember, I was 17. He also exposed himself to me over skype a few times, and when I told him he was creeping me out and I was going to start dating people for real, he sent me a dick pic, as a final goodbye.
Throughout our relationship, he continuously made plans to meet me in person. He asked me to take a train to Riverside so we could have relations. He sent me pictures of his family, talked about what our babies would look like, it was ridiculous. He always told me exactly what I wanted to hear, and acted self conscious so I would feel bad for him. It worked. I really liked him. But when I thought about the 10 year age difference between us, it began to creep me out and I eventually came to my senses.
But before ending it, a lot of things happened. First was I won his first armion contest, back when it was called avangel powder, and he still made me pay shipping for the product. He, who brags so much about making so many hundreds of dollars off his geckos can't even pay the $6 shipping for his girlfriend. That was the first red flag.
Eventually, when I would ask him for advice on my gecko's health, he would just tell me to use his powder and not to tell anyone they were sick. He said telling people would make people dislike me, and that's why he never posts about his animals being sick. BUT he always wanted me to promote that powder of his, even though it didn't help my geckos improve at all. I am still extremely annoyed at how frequently I see ads for this crud. It's basically just glorified multivitamins + rosemary. It smells horrible.
Anyway, that's my experience with Chaz. He's a cheapo, a pervert, and in my opinion, a very bad and dishonest business person and even worse influence for new breeders.
And this doesn't have much to do with anything, but Chaz and I started dating almost immediately after I got out of an abusive relationship, so I was extremely susceptible to this kind of flirtatious manipulation.
In case you don't believe me about my experience, here are a few things he said to me that might make others shudder.
"You've got a lot to grab on to"
"When I was your age a super hypo cost $200"
"I thought you loved me" via kik after I blocked his number
This was just to add to his character. I don't care if I get more hate mail or attempts to be silenced by him or his "employees" because I finally spoke up.
I'm sorry I don't have screenshots of our conversations. This was a year ago and I have since gotten a new phone and no longer use kik. I could see if the skype messages are still there but its unlikely they will be.