I have looked through the thread several times...where did Ben state that the turtles were not on the wholesale list?
"We are not into wholesaling all turtle orders" in the first facebook response. Then he says they are "for customers who order a multitude of animals."
I may have it mixed up because each time I read it, it seems to come out different. But why give the wholesale list to people that aren't allowed to order them? I don't know the in's and out's of it so I'll walk away from that.
The lesson learned here is if the person on the phone can't understand you or if you have to repeat yourself, I would have finished the transaction electronically. Sometimes there are speech barriers, willingness issues, and time constraints and a quick email can help all those problems.
Also, when addressing an issue such as this, I think being a little less combatitive might help IMO. After that initial message on facebook, I would have posted something along the lines of "I'm sorry there was a miscommunication. I'm standing by the phone now and can take your call or please email me about your inquiry and I would be glad to help" and then I would proceed to comment on the guys attitude privately.
All in all, it was a bridge burnt on both ends, same as in the other thread with the minor. No offense to Ben and I'm sure this is not the cas, but businesses can go in different directions at any point. Members that come in here and comment on feelings are only going to keep other people from coming forward. If he is treating all his customers disrespectfully, it should be known because some people don't want to bother with that nonsense. I would rather deal with a nice person and the same goes for the customer here. Ben stated he was rude, that is now known and people can take from it when they search his name. I research everyone I sell to and if you are a problem child, I pass.
Ben is a good guy, I'm pretty sure of it, so something like this won't matter to a customer that doesn't care about the "petty stuff," however, his response to the situation might. He has not screwed anyone or conned anyone out of money and that is all that matters sometimes.