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Im having issues getting into chat, and... while i dont want to seem pushy if you are really busy, what with getting the site back up and running rich, i also just want to know if its possibly just me.

It does say when i go to load chat, that it could be down, but also.. it says that i am behind a firewall and that my computer could just not be letting me through on that port. ( 8080 ) I added an exception to the firewall for firefox and that port specifically, so... yeah.. just curious! Thanks!

Alicia
 
Chat is down and will be for a while. I'm trying to keep the loading on the server down as much as possible for a bit to see if the other shoe is going to drop or not. There is a good chance we might be moving to a more heavily fortified server shortly, so the stuff needed to get the chat running would have to be done all over again at that time anyway.

Sorry, but I have to play it this way right now.
 
WebSlave said:
Chat is down and will be for a while. I'm trying to keep the loading on the server down as much as possible for a bit to see if the other shoe is going to drop or not. There is a good chance we might be moving to a more heavily fortified server shortly, so the stuff needed to get the chat running would have to be done all over again at that time anyway.

Sorry, but I have to play it this way right now.

No worries , do what you have to do.
 
absolutely not a problem! I figured that it was probably similar to last time where you had to rechange stuff to get it working again.

We chat junkies will survive :) Thanks for letting us know!
 
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