I want to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas this year. Hope this time of year is helping to soften the hard edges that life has thrown our way in 2007. Maybe 2008 will be better.
Many of you will remember that last year I decided to present this site with a Christmas "gift" by unbanning and unsuspending all members who had been booted from the site for one reason or another over the past few years. I thought it fitting to give everyone another chance to be a part of this site. Perhaps they had changed and things would be better if given the chance to prove themselves compatible with everyone else here.
Being that this time of year has rolled around again, naturally I start thinking in this frame of mind again.
But what resulted from my doing that last year? Did those people who came back and participated take value in that "gift"? Thinking back, I would have to say "no". In many cases, I believe that those people coming back just continued along the same path that got them banned in the first place, making things here somewhat more unpleasant for everyone else. Not really what I had hoped for, but I guess not too surprising, all things considered.
So with that in mind, my "gift" this year to this site and it's members is to NOT allow those people back on again. To not inflict those personalities on everyone else here who quite probably sighed with relief when certain people were made gone once again after the amnesty from last year.
I guess I just need to accept the fact that some people really don't need to be here, and in fact, this place is all the better without them. And certainly you would prefer to have a safe haven without them as well.
Merry Christmas, everyone.....................
Many of you will remember that last year I decided to present this site with a Christmas "gift" by unbanning and unsuspending all members who had been booted from the site for one reason or another over the past few years. I thought it fitting to give everyone another chance to be a part of this site. Perhaps they had changed and things would be better if given the chance to prove themselves compatible with everyone else here.
Being that this time of year has rolled around again, naturally I start thinking in this frame of mind again.
But what resulted from my doing that last year? Did those people who came back and participated take value in that "gift"? Thinking back, I would have to say "no". In many cases, I believe that those people coming back just continued along the same path that got them banned in the first place, making things here somewhat more unpleasant for everyone else. Not really what I had hoped for, but I guess not too surprising, all things considered.
So with that in mind, my "gift" this year to this site and it's members is to NOT allow those people back on again. To not inflict those personalities on everyone else here who quite probably sighed with relief when certain people were made gone once again after the amnesty from last year.
I guess I just need to accept the fact that some people really don't need to be here, and in fact, this place is all the better without them. And certainly you would prefer to have a safe haven without them as well.
Merry Christmas, everyone.....................

