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It very well could have been. I have had chronic pain for going on 12 years and have had a number of adverse reactions to medications and have felt like they were going to prescribe me a running wheel, a water bottle and some lab block for as much as I felt like a guinea pig. Where the hell is Gregory House when you need him?

On a date!

I'm so happy to hear Chuck is responding quicker. You should burn the slap chop remix and play that some times. Maybe that'll trigger an better responce. Waiting anxiously for your next updates.
 
It very well could have been. I have had chronic pain for going on 12 years and have had a number of adverse reactions to medications and have felt like they were going to prescribe me a running wheel, a water bottle and some lab block for as much as I felt like a guinea pig. Where the hell is Gregory House when you need him?


The running wheel and water bottle sounds like good medicine but instead of lab block ask for fruits and veggies :D
 
I'm so glad to hear that Chuck's more responsive today, Maggie!!

Now's the time to broaden his horizons while he's bed-ridden!!!

While you're ordering the Dave Matthews cds, pick up an intensive foreign language course, too!!

Mandarin Chinese should keep him busy for a while!!!

Keep the faith, girl-friend!!

BIG HUGS and LOTS of prayers-
Donna


He is still making some movements and they are going to start him on a new blood thinner to try to break up the clot in his leg. They found out today that he was allergic to the first blood thinner they gave him and it cause "antibodies" which basically means that his body produced tiny blood clots - nice, ha? He was pretty alert when I got to the hospital today and I asked him to blink for me and he did and it was much quicker than last time. I also went and bought him a cd player/radio for his room and the new Dave Matthews cd. Now, I have to order all the old Dave Matthews ones, I thought I still had them, but of course, can't find them anywhere. He seems to be more alert when there is noise in the room and there is just so much food network he can listen to. I think if any music will get into his head, it's definitely Dave Matthews.

I will post again when I get home tonight from the hospital - I have to try to feed the kids, give them all baths and get back to the hospital - all in 2 hours, should be interesting.
 
It very well could have been. I have had chronic pain for going on 12 years and have had a number of adverse reactions to medications and have felt like they were going to prescribe me a running wheel, a water bottle and some lab block for as much as I felt like a guinea pig. Where the hell is Gregory House when you need him?

Well, you know, I've always wondered why these so-called professionals have a "practice". Personally, I'd rather they practice on someone else and contact me when they KNOW what they are doing.... :rofl:

Anyway, good to hear that Chuck seems to be on the road to getting better. I'm sure he'll be back to slapping folks around before we know it.
 
I just came home from the hospital again. He was really wiped out tonight from his dialysis today and really didn't even open his eyes. I just pulled my chair up next to his bed and laid my head on his pillow. I have been worried about something for days now and it was confirmed tonight - he has necrosis of the toes and possibly his feet as well. The feet may get better but the toes are non-reversible. They are trying a different blood thinner to see if they can open the veins in his legs and hopefully break up the blood clots - I don't even remember if I posted this, but due to his allergy to the other blood thinner his body produced "antibodies" which means that he has developed tiny blood clots. They believe that they can break up the blood clots with the blood thinner, but all hope is lost with his toes. If they get worse or become a source of infection, they will have to risk it and amputate them quicker. Right now they are afraid to do it because they would need to put him under and don't know how much that would set him back with coming out of the coma. I have spoken to his vascular doctor many times over the past few days and he said that they may be able to save his foot - they are getting pulses in his left leg and foot but in his right leg they only get a pulse below the knee and can't find anything in his foot. I am trying to be optimistic, but it's just too difficult. Wish I had better news to tell all of you.
 
Maggie, I can only imagine how this must be for you and your family. I wish nothing but good for you guys. You are being so very strong for the both of you, and I hope things turn out for the best.

With all the ups and downs, I'd probably be an emotional train wreck by now and wouldn't even be able to keep composure to type up everything that is happening.

Props to you woman, you're such a good wifey and that's all he needs by his side :)
 
I'm so sorry, hopefully the new meds will break the clots down quickly and safely.

Hang in there Maggie, we're pulling for you as well as Chuck.
 
Time to break out the HEAVY prayers!!

Saint Anthony of Padua Novena-

O wonderful St. Anthony, glorious on account of the fame of your miracles, and through the condescension of Jesus in coming in the form of a little child to rest in your arms, obtain for me of His bounty the grace which I ardently desire from the depths of my heart.

You who were so compassionate toward miserable sinners, regard not the unworthiness of those who pray to you, but the glory of God that it may once again be magnified by the granting of the particular request For the healing of Chuck Kimmel. which I now ask for with persevering earnestness. Amen

Pray one Our Father,
one Hail Mary, and
Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY ONE

O holy St. Anthony, gentlest of saints, your love for God and charity for his creatures made you worthy while on earth to possess miraculous powers. Miracles waited your word, which you were ever ready to speak for those in trouble or anxiety. Encouraged by this thought, I implore you to obtain for me the favor I seek in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel.. The answer to my prayer may require a miracle; even so, you are the saint of miracles. O gentle and loving Saint Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of the Infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms, and thee gratitude of my heart will always be yours.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY TWO

O miracle-working St. Anthony, remember that it never has been heard that you left without help or relief anyone who in his need had recourse to you. Animated now with the most lively confidence, even with full conviction of not being refused, I fly for refuge to thee, O most favored friend of the Infant Jesus. O eloquent preacher of the divine mercy, despise not my supplications but, bringing them before the throne of God, strengthen them by your intercession and obtain for me the favor I seek in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY THREE

O purest St. Anthony, who through your angelic virtue was made worthy to be caressed by the Divine Child Jesus, to hold him in your arms and press him to your heart. I entreat you to cast a benevolent glance upon me. O glorious St. Anthony, born under the protection of Mary Immaculate, on the Feast of her Assumption into Heaven, and consecrated to her and now so powerful an intercessor in Heaven, I beseech you to obtain for me the favor I ask in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel. O great wonder-worker, intercede for me that God may grant my request.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY FOUR

I salute and honor you, O powerful helper, St. Anthony. The Christian world confidently turns to you and experiences your tender compassion and powerful assistance in so many necessities and sufferings that I am encouraged in my need to seek you help in obtaining a favorable answer to my request for the favor I seek in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel. O holy St. Anthony, I beseech you, obtain for me the grace that I desire.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY FIVE

I salute you, St. Anthony, lily of purity, ornament and glory of Christianity. I salute you, great Saint, cherub of wisdom and seraph of divine love. I rejoice at the favors our Lord has so liberally bestowed upon you. In humility and confidence I entreat you to help me, for I know that God has given you charity and pity, as well as power. I ask you by the love you did feel toward the Infant Jesus as you held him in your arms to tell Him now of the favor I seek through your intercession in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY SIX

O glorious St. Anthony, chosen by God to preach his Word, you received from Him the gift of tongues and the power of working the most extraordinary miracles. O good St. Anthony, pray that I may fulfill the will of God in all things so that I may love Him, with you, for all eternity. O kind St. Anthony, I beseech you, obtain for me the grace that I desire, the favor I seek in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY SEVEN

O renowned champion of the faith of Christ, most holy St. Anthony, glorious for your many miracles, obtain for me from the bounty of my Lord and God the grace which I ardently seek in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel. O holy St. Anthony, ever attentive to those who invoke you, grant me that aid of your powerful intercession.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY EIGHT

O holy St. Anthony, you have shown yourself so powerful in your intercession, so tender and so compassionate towards those who honor you and invoke you in suffering and distress. I beseech you most humbly and earnestly to take me under your protection in my present necessities and to obtain for me the favor I desire for the healing of Chuck Kimmel. Recommend my request to the merciful Queen of Heaven, that she may plead my cause with you before the throne of her Divine Son.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

DAY NINE

Saint Anthony, servant of Mary, glory of the Church, pray for our Holy Father, our bishops, our priests, our Religious Orders, that, through their pious zeal and apostolic labors, all may be united in faith and give greater glory to God. St. Anthony, helper of all who invoke you, pray for me and intercede for me before the throne of Almighty God that I be granted the favor I so earnestly see in this novena for the healing of Chuck Kimmel.

One Our Father, one Hail Mary, and Glory Be to the Father, in honor of Saint Anthony.

Saint Anthony, pray for us!

May the divine assistance remain always with us.
Amen

May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Amen.

O God, may the votive commemoration of blessed Anthony, your confessor, be a source of joy to your Church, that she may always be fortified with spiritual assistance, and deserve to enjoy eternal rewards. Through Christ our Lord.
Amen.
 
So sorry to hear of this, but I remain optimistic. Chuck is entirely too feisty not to get better. That man has an iron will. Hugs and Blessings for you, you're a very strong woman.

On a side note, if anyone would like to talk prescriptions, I'm happy to loan out my pharmacist hubby. He caught a potentially serious interaction with a new drug on the scene before it had a chance to kill me, and I'm daily grateful for his smarts and advice when it comes to what to take and when. Doctors don't always pay enough attention sometimes.
 
Just caught up on this thread and all I can say is, Maggie you're doing great and hang in there. I never post much, but I've always enjoyed what Chuck had to say and I appreciate his humor and honesty. I can't imagine what you and your family is going through. I'm keeping ya'll in my thoughts. He's a fighter and so are you!
 
So sorry Maggie. As already stated by many others hang in there and more more more prayers said. You're both strong fighters! I know he'll get better! Hugs and love to you and Chuck.
 
Very sorry to read this bad turn of events, but I gotta believe that Chuck will rebound soon...best of luck to you Maggie and Chuck.
 
God, i really hope they can help with the blood thinners. -____-

Just cant catch a darn break!!! Maggie you are AMAZING for coming here EVERY DAY and letting us know his progress even under the massive amount of stress youre dealing with. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
 
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