reptileman79
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I believe the snake was picked up by the OP's friend in person.
I believe the snake was picked up by the OP's friend in person.
Mr Fitzgerald,
Was shipping included in the advertised prices on whichever Facebook page you posted?
Actually, I was wondering if the snakes being picked up might have been part of why he accepted the lower offer in the first place since I noticed that he posted his ad here with shipped prices. The price there was markedly lower than here; but I don't know if it was one of those one day sales that he mentioned.
I feel bad about this deal and and if there was something I could do to make it right I would.
I'm not so sure what Tad did was all that bad. He had the snakes for sale for $175. The buyer sent him $125 instead. Tad did not check to make sure that the total he received was the correct one (his error) He let the snakes go without making sure he'd actually been paid the correct amount (another error). These were mistakes. Had the very same thing happen to me a week ago. Snake was listed at $400, and I told the guy $300 over the phone. Now, he knew I was in error, but of course said nothing so he could keep $100. But he fully expected to pay $400. After I'd charged him, I called and told him it was going to be $100 more. We ended up splitting the difference and I made the price $350. Anyway, my long winded point is: Tad is a great guy. I've known him for 25 years. I do business with him on an almost weekly basis, in person. He is one of the most honest people I know. This might make him look like a bad guy to some, but once again, he's very honest and has never ripped anyone off that I'm aware of. His animals are flawless to a tee, and he will never sell anything to anyone that he won't guarantee. This was an unfortunate misunderstanding that got out of control. I'll bet Tad wishes now he'd just let the snakes go, but on the other hand, I do understand where he's coming from. My question would be, and pardon me if I missed it is: the snakes were $175. That was the agreed price. Why did the buyer only send $125? Once again, I might have missed it if it's already been explained.
Ken,I'm not so sure what Tad did was all that bad. He had the snakes for sale for $175. The buyer sent him $125 instead. Tad did not check to make sure that the total he received was the correct one (his error) He let the snakes go without making sure he'd actually been paid the correct amount (another error). These were mistakes. Had the very same thing happen to me a week ago. Snake was listed at $400, and I told the guy $300 over the phone. Now, he knew I was in error, but of course said nothing so he could keep $100. But he fully expected to pay $400. After I'd charged him, I called and told him it was going to be $100 more. We ended up splitting the difference and I made the price $350. Anyway, my long winded point is: Tad is a great guy. I've known him for 25 years. I do business with him on an almost weekly basis, in person. He is one of the most honest people I know. This might make him look like a bad guy to some, but once again, he's very honest and has never ripped anyone off that I'm aware of. His animals are flawless to a tee, and he will never sell anything to anyone that he won't guarantee. This was an unfortunate misunderstanding that got out of control. I'll bet Tad wishes now he'd just let the snakes go, but on the other hand, I do understand where he's coming from. My question would be, and pardon me if I missed it is: the snakes were $175. That was the agreed price. Why did the buyer only send $125? Once again, I might have missed it if it's already been explained.
I'm not so sure what Tad did was all that bad. He had the snakes for sale for $175. The buyer sent him $125 instead. Tad did not check to make sure that the total he received was the correct one (his error) He let the snakes go without making sure he'd actually been paid the correct amount (another error). These were mistakes. Had the very same thing happen to me a week ago. Snake was listed at $400, and I told the guy $300 over the phone. Now, he knew I was in error, but of course said nothing so he could keep $100. But he fully expected to pay $400. After I'd charged him, I called and told him it was going to be $100 more. We ended up splitting the difference and I made the price $350. Anyway, my long winded point is: Tad is a great guy. I've known him for 25 years. I do business with him on an almost weekly basis, in person. He is one of the most honest people I know. This might make him look like a bad guy to some, but once again, he's very honest and has never ripped anyone off that I'm aware of. His animals are flawless to a tee, and he will never sell anything to anyone that he won't guarantee. This was an unfortunate misunderstanding that got out of control. I'll bet Tad wishes now he'd just let the snakes go, but on the other hand, I do understand where he's coming from. My question would be, and pardon me if I missed it is: the snakes were $175. That was the agreed price. Why did the buyer only send $125? Once again, I might have missed it if it's already been explained.
OK. Tad made a mistake. He understands that, and so do I. Now I'll ask the same thing I ask a customer when I make a mistake, which I do every so often by the way. I ask "what would you like me to do to resolve this"? The mistake has been made, now what? If the buyer has something in mind, perhaps Tad will take care of the request. If there is no solution, if it's too late, then it's time to move on. At this point everything seems status quo. Tad's got his snakes, and the buyer has her money. Once again Tad is a good guy. He is not a crook or a con, nor do his animals suck. This was a mistake. Perhaps poor judgement. We all make them and all have them.
Tad, just one question. How many people would actually return the snakes after paying for them because the seller asked for them back because the wrong amount was sent?
You contacted them and told them that you didn't collect the right amount and they had two choices. Send you another fifty dollars or you would refund them and take the snakes back. Many would just tell you to pound sand.
If they were dishonest people that's what they would have done. Would they not? No, they let the return happen. I would suspect they wouldn't be happy about it. Can you blame them? If it was you?
So I don't believe the discrepancy was done to defraud you. They thought they paid the right price and stated it in the transaction. You missed it.
So if they state they are going to tell people that makes them upset about the situation. Should they not be?
Note: That doesn't make them rude and threatening, Ed. That makes them generally unhappy with what has transpired.
Continuing-
They didn't have to do anything but they did give you the snakes back.
Seems to me that this shouldn't have gotten to this point at all.
You let the snakes walk out of your house without the payment you wanted. They sent you texts and paypal confirmation with what the payment was for.
Seems a bit much to to contact them and demand more payment or return them. It's your fault and they gave into your demand for the return.
So if they give you a bit of an attitude I don't think you will find anybody but Ed that seems to be sympathetic. You should be understanding of their frustration of this mistake.
I think if people just take the time and think this through and realize that it was just a mistake and they graciously did what they stated they would by returning the snakes (they certainly didn't have to), Tad, you should be a little more understanding why they take issue with how you handled the situation.