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Emily Fegan AKA greys4you - Use EXTREME CAUTION

Interesting......as I stated before, yesterday was supposed to be the actual shipping date of the snake. Not surprisingly, I did not recieve a tracking number or a snake. But today I recieved an email from her stating that she had a family emergency and that she would be emailing later with the shipping information. I guess I will see if I actually do recieve the snake (the actualy snake I ordered, not some tick infested male) and if I do, I will send her back her money? Kind of weird??
 
That is weird. So this person tried unsuccessfully to cash the money order and now she is saying shes going to ship? Did she mention anything about not being able to cash the money order?
 
Nope, no mention of the money order and no mention of the email I sent her asking about her possibly selling the snakes to someone else. Although the email she sent her reply from was that email, so I know she read it. I am curious to to see if she does send it or not?
 
Lee,

That's one of those rare ocassions where you get to inspect the animal you are buying before paying (if she actually ships her of course)! Please let us know of the outcome I'm also intrigued as of what's going on.

Regards. :)
 
agreed...I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for it to arrive, but if it does (and it is as advertised) you are obligated to send payment promptly or return the snake. Did you notify her that you stopped payment?? If not, if you return the snake it's at your own expense (and an argument could also be made for you to reimburse her cost)
 
of course, at no time should a snake be shipped without confirmation & approval by the buyer...so that shouldn't happen. I hate getting the email: "oh, btw, I shipped the snake today. It'll be there first thing tomorrow." the only thing worse is getting home and finding a box outside my door that I didn't know was coming
 
Certainly one of the more interesting posts to follow. Great job Dennis with the research !! You are "A#1". As for the whole "will she ship, will I then send her the money, stop payments successfully completed....etc", I am doubtful that anything will be sent, but I also think it likely that she may not yet know that there are stop-payments in, etc. I am not sure that I caught it all, but what I think was said that she had one attempt to cash it turned down, maybe because she didn't have an account, or do we know that the bank checked the money order and tld her it was no good? Even with an account, she could have it deposited, hopefully not credited until it clears, and not find out it is no longer a good money order until it comes back from her bank, which can take a week or so in such cases, I believe. Puts her in even more hot water with her bank, as they usually credit it before it gets returned, and if she has withdrawn the money, she will be hearing from her bank very quickly once that happens. A lot of specualtion on my part, as I may have missed something, or be unclear on details. Nice to see the good guys win one though!
 
Harald,

Unless the snake results to be a male instead of a female, then I don’t feel Lee should be responsible for the return shipping.

Regards
 
I was truly very surprised to hear from her today. After hearing of the two other people that she agreed to sell the snakes to, the information that Dennis posted (great fact finding!!) and the fact that I have never heard back from her since she recieved the money (inculding the inquiry about her selling the snakes to someone else), I figured I was totally being scammed and put a stop payment on the MO as fast as I could. They tried to cash the money order BEFORE we put a stop payment on it. The bank thought it was probably due to lack of proper ID, but they don't want to give out too much information. Even if she was planning on sending the snakes, I still think I did the correct thing and anyone would have responded in such a way.

I have not responded to her email yet, as I am not sure how to handle it. I'm still not sure that I will actually hear back from her with the shipping information. If she writes me back with the info I would tell her, but I am not resending the money without seeing the actual animal first. If it is indeed the correct animal I would send her the money overnight at my expense. If she is not happy with this she can simply put the animals back up for sale and see if anyone else wants to deal with her. Sounds kind of harsh, but with all of the internet scamming going on out there, this is definitely not sounding like a cool situation.
 
Don't get bitten again

When you do reply, invite the "seller" onto the BOI.

Let's see how they explain the previous transactions that have been detailed in this thread.

Could the bank refusing to cash the money order simply be coincidence?

Maybe, but given the scenario I would conclude that this is a scam.

Just tell them that you are not comfortable based upon information that has come to light since you initiated the transaction.

-Scott Ashton
 
If she writes me back with the info I would tell her, but I am not resending the money without seeing the actual animal first. If it is indeed the correct animal I would send her the money overnight at my expense. If she is not happy with this she can simply put the animals back up for sale and see if anyone else wants to deal with her. Sounds kind of harsh, but with all of the internet scamming going on out there, this is definitely not sounding like a cool situation.

If she is truthful to her word by now the snake is on its way. It seems odd that she would send her when she wasn’t able to cash the order. One way or the other what you are planning on doing is the right thing to do.

When you do reply, invite the "seller" onto the BOI.

Of course I could be wrong but based on the information Dennis presented in here I have the suspicion that she’s no stranger to the BOI…;)
 
Not harsh at all Lee. Under the circumstances I do not think there is a member here who would recommend you paying first. She is not really worht an escrow arrangement either. While it is not the normal procedure, she is certainly not in the "reputable breeder" category that would ease someone's mind in paying in advance, and I do not expect her to attain that lofty title anytime soon!
 
After my last post I was thinking to myself..."what am I thinking? I should just tell her to stuff it!" But, call it morbid curiosity, I want to see what she is up to. Maybe by telling me that she's still planning on shipping the snake, she is trying to buy herself a couple more days to find a way to cash that MO. Unless she's visited here, of course. However, I would never let her send the snake without telling her I canceled it, unless she sends it without contacting me first.
 
Sure, I have never done this before, so please bear with me. If you want to see them with all of the email heading info you will have to tell me how to do it, as I can not figure it out.


Hello, I was wondering if you have either of the females listed for sale still?

Thanks you,

Lee Kelly
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Lee,

I have a large response of emails for these girls but no one has taken them yet,if you are seriously going to buy these two please email me back as soon as possible so I can take down my ad and consider these sold.

The total for both females is $375

I guarantee Sex, Feeding, Weight, Health and pest free also live arrival.

I am accepting postal money orders for payments.....what I do is I will email you a UPS shipping slip overnight on my ups account all you have to do is print it out and attach it to a ups overnight envelope and drop it off at the ups store.

Thank You,

Emily

PetDepot

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Hi Emily, as much as I would love to take them both, I don't quite have enough today for both. I was interested in the larger one, if that is possible? Please let me know, I do understand if you have someone interested in both.

Thanks, Lee

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I can sell them seperatly the larger one I can give you for $175 Shipping included :) SHHH
Just let me know as soon as possible

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The larger one was the first picture with the really nice lighter coloration, right? I really liked her a lot. If that is her, I'll take her!

Lee

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Yes Lee that is her.....$175 shipping included
Email me with you shipping address and I will make the UPS label now so you can drop it off on monday and I will recieve the postal money order on tuesday
Let me know if shipping is good on tuesday for arrival on wednesday morning.
Let me know as soon as possible
Thanks again,
Emily

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My shipping address is 15371 Clinton Rd. Jackson, Ca. 95642. I will be home all next week and can receive it any time. Please note that it is getting rather cold here.

I was wondering if you have any other pictures of her? Just so I don't have to keep going back to the ad to see her. LOL!

Lee

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Okay Lee heres the label let me know if it attaches right........


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This is a email Confirming that you received the Shipping Label from UPS in an email.

All you have to do is print it out and attach it to a UPS envelope and drop it off at the UPS store on Monday.

Your total for your order is : $175 for the one adult female ball python



Payment for them will be in a Postal money order that is purchased at the post office.

Please make it out to:

Emily Fegin

269 Twickenham Trace

Suwanee Ga 30024

When you mail the money order please include your Shipping address and exactly what you ordered in the envelope on a separate sheet of paper.

Just for confirmation please make sure you have wrote down the date that is okay for shipping, please remember you have to be there in the morning since they will deliver them for early morning guaranteed before 9:00

I will be preparing them for shipping on Tuesday for Wednesday Delivery, but you will need to confirm that you will be there to receive them at the shipping address you provided me.

Just shoot me an email confirming that you received the UPS label and you will be dropping it off at the UPS store on Monday so I will receive it on Tuesday and that shipping is okay on Tuesday for arrival on Wednesday for you.

I guarantee live arrival, sex , health, pest free, size, and feeding.

Thank You,

Emily

PetDepot

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Hi Emily, I did receive it. I do not have a UPS store where I live, but I have several places that offer UPS shipping (Mailboxes Etc. and such), will this be okay? You also mentioned that you would send some more pictures of her?

Thank you,

Lee

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Okay Lee,that is fine you can drop it off whereever UPS is accepted.
I will get those pictures out to you today sorry about the wait :)
Thanks again,Emily

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Okay Lee I am sorry those pictures took so long.....I will attach the one in the ad in this email and try to snap a few tonight and email them to you, Its just I have been very busy so it may be tommarrow afternoon.
Thanks for your patience.
Thanks again,
Emily

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Hi Emily, the money order was sent out just a little bit ago. Please let me know when you receive it.

Thanks,

Lee

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Hi Emily. My husband sent your money order yesterday and I was wondering if you received it? And if so, did you get a chance to send the snake today? Just checking up. : )

Thanks,

Lee

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Hello Emily. Your money order was sent yesterday and you should have received it today. I have not heard back from you and would really like to. I have learned some disturbing news today that you had actually sold these same snakes to a different party? Could you please get back to me explaining this information?

Thank you,

Lee

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Lee,
A family emergency has just came up and I will get back to you on a shipping date shorlty.
Sorry,
Emily
 

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I guess a part of me is hoping that she is not a bad person and that maybe something did happen, and not so much because of the snake, but because it would be nice to not have been taken advantage of. I hate to think the worst of people all of the time. Although I'm not thinking this is the case.
 
The BoidSmith said:
Harald,
Unless the snake results to be a male instead of a female, then I don’t feel Lee should be responsible for the return shipping.
Regards
I disagree (on 2 counts)- If Lee cancels payment, but does not inform the seller - returning the snake is Lee's responsibility; and if the seller (any seller)sends a snake of the incorrect sex, the seller should pay (or refund the cost of) return shipping
 
Now that I read what I typed it leads to confusion.

What I meant was, I don't feel Lee should be responsible for the return shipping if the snake ends up being a male (misrepresentation). In fact the seller should pay for shipping both ways as he send something that was not agreed upon.

On the other hand if Lee cancels payment without notification and wants to return the snake, shouldn't he be paying shipping both ways and not just the return shipping? Let's forget for a moment the possibility of attempted scam, and strictly deal with the facts at hand. Why would a seller that was not notified that the buyer did not pay (and will return the merchandise) should be paying shipping both ways?

Regards
 
Agreed, Dan. I said Lee would be responsible for shipping the snake back because I assumed that shipping costs were factored into the amount paid
 
The cost of shipping the snake to me was factored into the cost of the snake. She was $175 shipped. Seeriously, if she were to ship the snake to me without letting me know first without giving me a chance to tell her, the only way I would send the snake back to her was if it wasn't even the snake I originally purchased in the first place. In which case I am still getting scammed and I don't see why I should have to pay the shipping back for a snake I didn't order? But, I think at this point the best thing to do is to write her and let her know that I did stop payment and to direct her here as to why.
 
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