Neil Gubitz
TampaSnakePit.com
- Joined
- Feb 4, 2002
- Messages
- 2,375
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- Age
- 74
- Location
- Port Saint Lucie, Florida
Mark and Kim.... what do you think.... I sleep with the guy???.... I know NOTHING of your transactions, nor do I want to know.... I got involved with the other two (Vinny and Steve Zaun) because I mistakenly MADE myself involved with helping them for one reason or another.... Sal has never done me wrong in any way, and he is a friend who has had a lot of stress and strife in his life as of late.... he asked for my help, and I am glad to have given it.... that's what the word "friend" means!!.... What I hate, are "fair-weather" friends.... they aren't friends at all!!.... I have never taken a credit card from him that I have not ASKED the credit card company FIRST if I could do it, knowing FULL WELL that I would be on the hook if something went wrong.... that's the chance I took.... I got burned before with one, and have been reimbursed by Sal for that one already.... I know full well that I will be reimbursed for this one as well.... Burn me once, shame on him, burn me twice, shame on me.... I've already told him I WON'T use my charge account again for him.... but I'm STILL his friend!!....
Alan.... I'm disappointed in what you did long before this happened.... we had a very good working relationship that YOU threw away because you chose to believe the word of someone else over mine.... with no proof whatsoever, and, as it turned out, after TWO YEARS, I was PROVEN innocent, but did that matter to you??.... You continually harp on that thread (as does everybody else), and only some of you (Rob, Brian, Ray and a few others) have had the moral decency to say they were wrong in their thinking and apologize to me.... and you can still wonder why I have the feelings I do for a lot of the people here??.... and, NO, Alan, I'm not referring to you in that last statement.... you tried, but you still just can't let it go.... If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it.... and certainly don't harp on it.... at least have the empathy for someone to TRY and start making up for the bad, instead of continually pointing it out??.... That helps no one.... What's past is past, you can't bring it back, you can only try to make it better.... and if a lot of the other people on this site could only see that, it would go a long way into making this a better community, and the rest of us better people....
Neil
Alan.... I'm disappointed in what you did long before this happened.... we had a very good working relationship that YOU threw away because you chose to believe the word of someone else over mine.... with no proof whatsoever, and, as it turned out, after TWO YEARS, I was PROVEN innocent, but did that matter to you??.... You continually harp on that thread (as does everybody else), and only some of you (Rob, Brian, Ray and a few others) have had the moral decency to say they were wrong in their thinking and apologize to me.... and you can still wonder why I have the feelings I do for a lot of the people here??.... and, NO, Alan, I'm not referring to you in that last statement.... you tried, but you still just can't let it go.... If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it.... and certainly don't harp on it.... at least have the empathy for someone to TRY and start making up for the bad, instead of continually pointing it out??.... That helps no one.... What's past is past, you can't bring it back, you can only try to make it better.... and if a lot of the other people on this site could only see that, it would go a long way into making this a better community, and the rest of us better people....
Neil