Bad Guy Eyelash Exotics

[eyelashexotics]

Kita, That photo was made by someone trying to hate on me, just like all of you. Which is why I made light of it. I'm not going to cry over someone making some stupid meme about how terrible I am.

At this point I stopped caring, yes, because nobody bothered to read anything, everyone is blaming me when in this thread at least three times I attempted to take responsibility and apologize and NOBODY CARES because they want to tell me how immature I am. I don't care anymore. This is something I've worked on for eight years now and I'm losing it all, all because every time I attempt to defend myself, someone accuses me of lying or needs proof. So either I cry over my "ruined business", or I take it lightly and move on.

 

[eyelashexotics]

This is what I get. Thanks mom. I got my "black marks". Are we done yet?

 

[Ihkura]

Lynn, this all started when you posted a message asking all your gecko-breeder friends to e-mail. I saw that message when it was first posted, and I posted a message asking if you or the other breeder had copyrighted their name. That message was apparently deleted, but I know I asked and I have a feeling you might not have liked my answer.

YOU panicked, YOU asked people to go after the other breeder, and YOU started this. YOU owe him an apology because you acted impulsively.

I'm sorry Lynn, but in my eyes, having seen this from the start (and just now viewing the aftermath) I think your actions are the reason this all happened, and you need to take responsibility for that.

<b>Will someone PLEASE take the time to read this entire thread before they post and try to tell me to apologize?</b>

Some of us have read from start to finish, and still think you're being flippant, immature, and insincere. You're still denying responsibility for instigating this, and you absolutely did start it. Calling the reptile people crazy(noting that you yourself are one) is not the answer. Settle down, stop trying to be defensive(it only digs the hole deeper), and try being sincere. The situation is still salvageable, just drop the snarky attitude, take a deep breath, apologize, and let it go.

 

[aSnakeLovinBabe]

"I personally want to take the time to apologize to anyone who has ever felt victimized by my business-- wait, what? I forgot I don't care. Hate all you want kiddos."

Really? what kind of professional establishment says things like this? Well gee, for someone that doesn't care you sure are doing a lot of back peddling trying to clear your good name. And yet with posts like that, you do nothing but dig your hole a little deeper. People will read this and come to their own conclusions about you. You claim you are confident that you have done nothing wrong, yet you feel the need to write paragraph after paragraph of calling reptile people (YOUR customer base) insane and repeating that "this is ridiculous" - all in attempts to justify your actions. Truthfully yes it IS ridiculous. But it's here because of your actions. You can't put this on anyone else. The only way to make this right is to stop acting so unprofessionally... Just stop with the snide commentary. No more threatening to "seriously hurt" someone for disagreeing with you over a simple matter such as photo editing. Not everyone is going to feel the same way you do on everything. If that is how you react in a disagreement you will soon find yourself very lonely in our hobby. And that precious trademark that was so expensive won't pay itself off if you continue to drive it into the ground in this manner.

 

[Fangthane]

Kita, That photo was made by someone trying to hate on me, just like all of you. Which is why I made light of it. I'm not going to cry over someone making some stupid meme about how terrible I am.

At this point I stopped caring, yes, because nobody bothered to read anything, everyone is blaming me when in this thread at least three times I attempted to take responsibility and apologize and NOBODY CARES because they want to tell me how immature I am. I don't care anymore. This is something I've worked on for eight years now and I'm losing it all, all because every time I attempt to defend myself, someone accuses me of lying or needs proof. So either I cry over my "ruined business", or I take it lightly and move on.

I believe you said it best, when you said:

Obviously you want to be seen as a poor innocent victim, so let's all pity you.

Give it a rest. You're getting no more than what you actively brought on yourself, and no less than what you deserve.

 

[Mystic Exotics]

"I personally want to take the time to apologize to anyone who has ever felt victimized by my business-- wait, what? I forgot I don't care. Hate all you want kiddos."

Really? what kind of professional establishment says things like this? Well gee, for someone that doesn't care you sure are doing a lot of back peddling trying to clear your good name. And yet with posts like that, you do nothing but dig your hole a little deeper. People will read this and come to their own conclusions about you. You claim you are confident that you have done nothing wrong, yet you feel the need to write paragraph after paragraph of calling reptile people (YOUR customer base) insane and repeating that "this is ridiculous" - all in attempts to justify your actions. Truthfully yes it IS ridiculous. But it's here because of your actions. You can't put this on anyone else. The only way to make this right is to stop acting so unprofessionally... Just stop with the snide commentary. No more threatening to "seriously hurt" someone for disagreeing with you over a simple matter such as photo editing. Not everyone is going to feel the same way you do on everything. If that is how you react in a disagreement you will soon find yourself very lonely in our hobby. And that precious trademark that was so expensive won't pay itself off if you continue to drive it into the ground in this manner.

I saw that, & it was posted about an hour ago, right?
I think it will fall on deaf ears, unfortunately.

She's called the reptile people insane a number of times, as well as say that some of her current customers are "too ignorant", I doubt anything said here will make her change her tune.

 

[shutter]

I agree with Kita. I'm fairly new to the hobby, yet far enough to start a couple of breeding projects. I come to this site to read through the BOI to take mental notes on who to avoid if possible. I also cross referenced the business page, and from there it was easy enough to reference her personal page since Lynn herself links to it all over her business site. I definitely took note of the posts Kita is linking above, and there is one on her personal page seemingly referencing this situation that would get me a ban and the ire of any self-respecting woman to post on here.

The mark of a quality person is learning from mistakes, admitting to mistakes, and being humble in the face of one. Something I'm not seeing what-so-ever via what Eyelash Exotics is putting out there on her own. No humility, no remorse, and no regret. The funny part is that the big breeders are respected for their professionalism, along with their animals. I find any threats to black balling hilarious because any breeder worth a damn is going to ignore this poor immature girl. Yet alone calling people "kiddos," takes one to know one I guess!

 

[eyelashexotics]

It doesn't matter what I say at this point.
I have said my apologies, and I was sincere when I was talking directly to bobby.

That's it.

I did not threaten anyone, didn't make up some gecko mafia, didn't do any of that and I don't plan on ever apologizing for that threat because it didn't have to do with the actual post from the beginning. That threat was sent because Bobby decided to call me a tw*t.

The post I had up stayed up for a maximum of twenty minutes. In my apology I took responsibility for the e-mails that were sent to him and told him that I didn't intend for him to recieve any hate mail, as I have previously stated.

All of the hostility now is only from all of these random bystanders trying to insult me and call me a liar. I have yet to lie about anything I have said, and I stand by that whole heartedly. I refuse to accept responsibility for that threat that was made because the initial post that I apologized for had nothing to do with it.

I also am extremely angry at the fact that I have tried to explain this to bobby maturely, admitted to the whole situation being immature and unprofessional, apologized for my and everyone else's actions, even admitted that I understood why he would respond with such hostility, and people are STILL telling me to apologize, that I wasn't sincere, that they don't want to do business with me and attempting to insult me.

Like I said, I did everything I could, and nobody wants to leave me alone, so of course I'm going to get defensive and angry.

 

[Lucille]

I blocked you a good long time ago for things you said to me on facebook.

You were talking about someone you blocked 'a long time ago' from your FB page for whatever reason. But a few posts back, who do we see posting in a screen shot but someone who appears to be Andrew Schnell, who appears to be the one who wrote Bob and threatened to have him blacklisted if he wasn't 'careful'.

I think since you seem to know how to block people off your page, you would have done that immediately with Andrew so as to distance yourself from his actions.

 

[Kita]

I'm curious though, Lynn. The copied message you say you know nothing about:

"Lynn and I have some very big connections, including the biggest and best known names in the industry, and the biggest name in New Caledonian geckos in Canada. We can make sure you won't be able to buy any nice geckos from any well known breeders if you aren't careful. I would strongly advise issuing her an apology for the insult, or risk going nowhere in this hobby." This is the kind of thing I am talking about . why threaten me with slander and bouycott because you want my site and keep messaging me? This sort of thing should not be watched in idle while they continue to bully.

Andrew Schnell

10:54pm Jan 26

Is that and the meme picture not from your boyfriend/fiance? Why would you not know about that?

 

[eyelashexotics]

Why would I have done that?
He's a friend of mine and he saw someone call me a tw*t so he sent a message evidently asking him to apologize in clearly not the best way.

That doesn't make me want to block him or any of the other people that contributed to this. I took responsibility for it, apologized for what they did, and for the one post I made and took down.

 

[Mimmieux]

You were talking about someone you blocked 'a long time ago' from your FB page for whatever reason. But a few posts back, who do we see posting in a screen shot but someone who appears to be Andrew Schnell, who appears to be the one who wrote Bob and threatened to have him blacklisted if he wasn't 'careful'.

I think since you seem to know how to block people off your page, you would have done that immediately with Andrew so as to distance yourself from his actions.

Andrew and Lynn are currently dating,therefore she has no want to block him.

 

[Sublime Reptiles]

You say you take responsibility for your actions, and the actions of your friends and that your'e sorry however you still come here and use unprofessional terms, act childish over the whole thing. You lack total sincerity which is why they will not except it and why so many people here will not except it. You act childish on your page, post things up saying you do not care ho you mistreated customers. Really that is supposed to help you and help you clear your business name when you act in this way on your business page? What is the difference if you rip people off with artwork, buisness names, or good people with beautiful geckos because they do not see eye to eye with you and only in return they defend themselves?

You have your little minions who only follow you because they think you will give them something in the aftermath. And sadly these people, well they will get nothing from you. As stated before you were a nobody 2-3 months ago and ONLY through you bashing people, bashing their geckos, bashing their buisness, and not following through with your own buisness plans when work was promised to be done you made this name for yourself. No matter how much you in your snarky way say "I said sorry already", you will not be treated with respect until you give it. And frankly those who do respect you are not respected by many other people, and quite frankly are ridiculed in their own little gecko circle.

Yo made friends with the wrong people, the people who just use other people. Or maybe they are the right friends for you since you seem to fall into that also. Just remember who you run with, your choice words, and actions speak loudly. And just remember, insane runs in your family also, recall you are a reptile person also. And a mental note to yourself....name calling your peers and possible customers is not professional.

So if you want to be taken seriously, say your amends openingly, in a non snarky sort of way. On your little facebook group say an apology, say it here, say it to the world. And after that....grow up.

 

[Sang]

Lynn, at this point the best thing you can do is to just disappear and give up on the elelashexotics name. you have not done yourself any favors.

i remember back when a few websites were bought up prior to companies like sony and marvel bought the rights. guess what they had to do because someone already owned the domain, copyright or not... they had to PAY a boat load of money to buy the rights to the sites. and some companies couldn't even get the rights.

so overall you may have had the thought, the process of the company for up to 8 years doesn't do any good if you never owned the domain name. you'd have to buy it from him either way. i know you weren't trying to buy the domain, but rather get the to give it up willingly.. but that isn't how the world works.

 

[eyelashexotics]

I'm curious though, Lynn. The copied message you say you know nothing about:



Is that and the meme picture not from your boyfriend/fiance? Why would you not know about that?

The meme is from someone who is constantly attacking other people, Read the name, my boyfriend/fiance wouldn't be named that, I'm pretty sure of it.

 

[eyelashexotics]

Lynn, at this point the best thing you can do is to just disappear and give up on the elelashexotics name. you have not done yourself any favors.

i remember back when a few websites were bought up prior to companies like sony and marvel bought the rights. guess what they had to do because someone already owned the domain, copyright or not... they had to PAY a boat load of money to buy the rights to the sites. and some companies couldn't even get the rights.

so overall you may have had the thought, the process of the company for up to 8 years doesn't do any good if you never owned the domain name. you'd have to buy it from him either way. i know you weren't trying to buy the domain, but rather get the to give it up willingly.. but that isn't how the world works.

yet again.
I don't want the domain name. as I have said about thirty times in this thread.

 

[Lucille]

Andrew and Lynn are currently dating,therefore she has no want to block him.

fiance

So it was you fiance that threatened to blacklist Bob ? If so, you two seem to be well matched.

 

[eyelashexotics]

You say you take responsibility for your actions, and the actions of your friends and that your'e sorry however you still come here and use unprofessional terms, act childish over the whole thing. You lack total sincerity which is why they will not except it and why so many people here will not except it. You act childish on your page, post things up saying you do not care ho you mistreated customers. Really that is supposed to help you and help you clear your business name when you act in this way on your business page? What is the difference if you rip people off with artwork, buisness names, or good people with beautiful geckos because they do not see eye to eye with you and only in return they defend themselves?

You have your little minions who only follow you because they think you will give them something in the aftermath. And sadly these people, well they will get nothing from you. As stated before you were a nobody 2-3 months ago and ONLY through you bashing people, bashing their geckos, bashing their buisness, and not following through with your own buisness plans when work was promised to be done you made this name for yourself. No matter how much you in your snarky way say "I said sorry already", you will not be treated with respect until you give it. And frankly those who do respect you are not respected by many other people, and quite frankly are ridiculed in their own little gecko circle.

Yo made friends with the wrong people, the people who just use other people. Or maybe they are the right friends for you since you seem to fall into that also. Just remember who you run with, your choice words, and actions speak loudly. And just remember, insane runs in your family also, recall you are a reptile person also. And a mental note to yourself....name calling your peers and possible customers is not professional.

So if you want to be taken seriously, say your amends openingly, in a non snarky sort of way. On your little facebook group say an apology, say it here, say it to the world. And after that....grow up.

I was a nobody 2-3 months ago? I've been using the forums since at least mid 2011.
"And just remember, insane runs in your family also, recall you are a reptile person also" that statement makes no sense.

Again, this is just another post that I just described. Attempting to insult me, telling me I need to apologize, everything I just talked about in my last post. This is getting really old.

 

[eyelashexotics]

So it was you fiance that threatened to blacklist Bob ? If so, you two seem to be well matched.

...who said any of this?

This is just getting weird. What else am I going to be accused of?

 

[Kita]

The meme is from someone who is constantly attacking other people, Read the name, my boyfriend/fiance wouldn't be named that, I'm pretty sure of it.

Compare the edited top to the same full name at the bottom. I seem to clearly read "Andrew Schnell" in there. Upon looking at the profile, it appears to be a cover-up to try and not look so obvious.