Alrighty so what I gather from this thread is this...
The OP went online and bought a product from FloridaHerps. He received it in the mail and opened it, to find that it wasnt the thing that was advertised online. So, from what I gather (Through the mind numbing posts on the first and second page), that the OP got angry and gave FH a really nasty voice mail message.
FH and the OP exchange phone calls over ... a variated amount of time.
During these phone conversations the OP was (from what I gather), rude, disrespectful and incorigable since FH couldnt get a word in edgewise on his ranting/raving about the product.
So FH hangs up the phone and sends horrible emails to the OP, to which he responds hes going to file a police report and go to his bank and try and get his money back the legal way.
1. If you have a problem with a product you receive, you dont call up the person that sold it to you and be rude.
No matter how angry or upset you are. I recently lost a water dragon in transit and honestly, it really upset me. But I calmly and carefully wrote out a nice email explaining what happened in a mature sounding voice and got everything taken care of in a timely fashion.
Everything worked out.
If you lose or get something thats 'not right', dont come off as "you should get this thing because it says right there you should get it!".. you wont get help.
2. I understand that being on the receiveing end of customer service can be a pain in the behind, but you still have to keep a semblence of maturity and professionalism during your sales.
You do not return customers nasty phone calls with rude words of your own, you do not send them emails stating their animals should die, and you definately should not curse at a customer over the phone.
Doesnt matter if the customer is irate, you have to keep your cool, especially if youre in the business of selling things online, since so much can go wrong from the product getting from point A to point B.
So all in all, both of you need to bow your heads and apologize, then go your separate ways.