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Gender and Sexuality

So who are you? Vote is not public

  • Straight Male

    Votes: 16 48.5%

  • Gay Male

    Votes: 2 6.1%

  • Bi Male

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Straight Female

    Votes: 9 27.3%

  • Gay Female

    Votes: 4 12.1%

  • Bi Female

    Votes: 2 6.1%

  • Do not wish to say

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Other. Trans...Genderqueer...you name it.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    33
ladyserpent7 said:
hmm...this thread made me think.....ive never known or heard of a bi man...i think its the rarest
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Honey they are all over, but dont want to admit it. I know a few guys that say they are straight, yet they do like men, even get busy with them etc. Yet still say they are straight.

Too much pressure on people these days NOT to just accept who they are..

which ticks me off ..

I think good or bad, people should accept each other AND themselves ..

*shrugs*
 
Miss Tuniwha said:
I think good or bad, people should accept each other AND themselves ..
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Accept the person.....absolutely! Accept the behavior......not necessarily. It all depends on what we're talking about.

Griz
 
Griz said:
Accept the person.....absolutely! Accept the behavior......not necessarily. It all depends on what we're talking about.

Griz
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Getting a little simplistic, there, aren't we Griz? Don't make Sister Bazel break out "The Paddle"...
 
It's all about accepting YOURSELF, for what/who you are, and not really giving a damn if others agree with it or not. :thumbsup:

Makes for a simple life IMO.
 
jsrocket said:
Getting a little simplistic, there, aren't we Griz? Don't make Sister Bazel break out "The Paddle"...
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Nope, not at all. It's kind of like the ole' saying love the sinner hate the sin. Not simplistic at all. Rather, it can be one of the hardest things you have to do.

Griz
 
Bi female here! :thumbsup:

Miss Tuniwha, I agree that most women seem to be crazy, but I found one who isn't, and so far so good! But, it kinda sucks though because I never came out to my family and most of my friends. I have been with my gf for 6 months and not many people know, maybe one day I will get over the feeling of there being a stigma for being bi (or for even caring what other people think).
 
I hear ya Angela.. Much of my family are.. "Christians" I put the quotes in there because they are some of the most judgmental people I know, and Christianity is SUPPOSED to be all about love.. lets not get into that though..

Everyone I know, except my family knows I am attracted to women.. but I am married to a man, so no one really cares.. ha ha ha ha ha.

The odd thing about.. how people feel about Bisexuality, is even some GAY people don't feel there IS such a thing..

Irony much??

Ignorance is bliss I say often these days it seems :p

I am glad that you have a good relationship ^_^ REGARDLESS of the gender of them.. I am glad you are happy.
 
Griz said:
Nope, not at all. It's kind of like the ole' saying love the sinner hate the sin. Not simplistic at all. Rather, it can be one of the hardest things you have to do.

Griz
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Bob, I love ya man but can you enlighten us as to which sins or behaviors you may be referring? You opened the door on this one.


I agree with Rick wholeheartedly on this.
crotalusadamanteus said:
It's all about accepting YOURSELF, for what/who you are, and not really giving a damn if others agree with it or not. :thumbsup:

Makes for a simple life IMO.
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Griz said:
Nope, not at all. It's kind of like the ole' saying love the sinner hate the sin. Not simplistic at all. Rather, it can be one of the hardest things you have to do.

Griz
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Touche, mon ami. Very correct.
 
But I still refuse to accept the soup du jour morality, just because it's hot, and shoved under my nose.
 
Jim O said:
Bob, I love ya man but can you enlighten us as to which sins or behaviors you may be referring? You opened the door on this one.
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Nope, not particularly, as I wasn't really commenting about one specific thing. Rather, I was responding to the whole "acceptance" portion of the discussion. It's easy for someone to simply take the stance that we should simply "accept" everyone. I may allow someone into my life but if they have a behavior that I disagree with then I will call them to task.

People believe that we are not suppose to judge others. Whether you hold the typical Christian values or simply your own personal high standards, judging others and holding them accountable for thier actions is truly showing that you accept "them."

By allowing someone to wander down the path of self-destruction, simply because you're afraid of judging someone, shows not acceptance or love, for that matter, to the person to whom you're suppose to accept.

Don't get me wrong though. I will do my very best to never judge someone over an issue that I myself am struggling with. To do so would be the epitomy of hypocrisy. But, if I no longer struggle with that "sin" or "issue" then I will hold them accountable, if for no other reason then the simple fact that I accept them and want better for them.

Griz
 
Yeah, but you never said if you were straight or gay. Neither did Richie for that matter. But the comment below sure does leave some room for self interpretation. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:


Griz said:
Don't get me wrong though. I will do my very best to never judge someone over an issue that I myself am struggling with. To do so would be the epitomy of hypocrisy. Griz
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:dgrin: I couldn't resist.
 
crotalusadamanteus said:
Yeah, but you never said if you were straight or gay. Neither did Richie for that matter. But the comment below sure does leave some room for self interpretation. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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That's because I don't let my sexuality define me. We see too many people that wear their sexuality as a badge of honor and it IS what they see themselves as. I am Robert Woodard, father of 4, lover to my beautiful bride and hopefully a good person who will make a difference in the lives of those I touch. Whether I am straight, gay or indifferent is really irrelevant to who I am.

Griz
 
Griz said:
That's because I don't let my sexuality define me. We see too many people that wear their sexuality as a badge of honor and it IS what they see themselves as. I am Robert Woodard, father of 4, lover to my beautiful bride and hopefully a good person who will make a difference in the lives of those I touch. Whether I am straight, gay or indifferent is really irrelevant to who I am.

Griz
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I just wanna give you a big hug..

you rock

^_^
 
Griz said:
By allowing someone to wander down the path of self-destruction, simply because you're afraid of judging someone, shows not acceptance or love, for that matter, to the person to whom you're suppose to accept.
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I knew that I loved you for a reason.
 
The Man Love in this thread is just....... tear jerking.

I LOVE YOU GUYS!!

Lets all hold hands and sing Kumbaya.
 
Griz said:
That's because I don't let my sexuality define me. We see too many people that wear their sexuality as a badge of honor and it IS what they see themselves as. I am Robert Woodard, father of 4, lover to my beautiful bride and hopefully a good person who will make a difference in the lives of those I touch. Whether I am straight, gay or indifferent is really irrelevant to who I am.

Griz
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