Ball Python Cafe
Ball Python Breeder
Of course I do.
However, its the enthusiastic feeding manner in which these facts are stated in this thread that really leaves such a foul taste in my mouth. There is just a difference in stating facts/making your point and what this thread contains.
The BOI section is without a doubt a benefit to everyone! But I question the obvious joviality in which the 'good guys' relish destroying someone that has me concerned. The power this forum has on peoples lives is a powerful double edged sword. Get it right and save 1,000s of people from at best a very disappointing situation, at worst a transaction mistake that destroys your breeding projects, your income, hopes and dreams. Get it wrong and you have destroyed a person's life in this business and the family he/she feeds. That's serious and I have seen it taken far too lightly in this thread. Throughout this thread I've seen virtual high-fives going on between posts! Are you kidding me? You are destroying someone's livelihood with each post. It real and personal. High-fives, fun and playfulness have no place here. Its like a funeral to me. After reading this and the gleeful manner in which each nail was driven into the coffin, I felt like the group as whole was just losing perspective maybe of just how powerful this forum is.
Jeanean, you are new too. What if you had a negative post made about you from someone you had never heard of (completely made up)? This group would be sniffing you out immediately. They would have gone through your site with a fine tooth comb already and posted anything they saw that was questionable. Look at how quickly I was added to folks bad lists. I don't have a SINGLE unhappy customer EVER and I don't plan on ever having one if I can help it. But I'm on big breeders do not sell or buy from list. Don't you think that is a little too powerful or being wielded a little too easily? Lord forbid that you ever make one of these folks mad. They could make one post and destroy you. I see most of them are in on the same groups. Think this enormous power would ever get abused (not saying it has) but with money involved, when is more likely than if.
I'd simply like the power to be wielded a little more solemnly.
However, its the enthusiastic feeding manner in which these facts are stated in this thread that really leaves such a foul taste in my mouth. There is just a difference in stating facts/making your point and what this thread contains.
The BOI section is without a doubt a benefit to everyone! But I question the obvious joviality in which the 'good guys' relish destroying someone that has me concerned. The power this forum has on peoples lives is a powerful double edged sword. Get it right and save 1,000s of people from at best a very disappointing situation, at worst a transaction mistake that destroys your breeding projects, your income, hopes and dreams. Get it wrong and you have destroyed a person's life in this business and the family he/she feeds. That's serious and I have seen it taken far too lightly in this thread. Throughout this thread I've seen virtual high-fives going on between posts! Are you kidding me? You are destroying someone's livelihood with each post. It real and personal. High-fives, fun and playfulness have no place here. Its like a funeral to me. After reading this and the gleeful manner in which each nail was driven into the coffin, I felt like the group as whole was just losing perspective maybe of just how powerful this forum is.
Jeanean, you are new too. What if you had a negative post made about you from someone you had never heard of (completely made up)? This group would be sniffing you out immediately. They would have gone through your site with a fine tooth comb already and posted anything they saw that was questionable. Look at how quickly I was added to folks bad lists. I don't have a SINGLE unhappy customer EVER and I don't plan on ever having one if I can help it. But I'm on big breeders do not sell or buy from list. Don't you think that is a little too powerful or being wielded a little too easily? Lord forbid that you ever make one of these folks mad. They could make one post and destroy you. I see most of them are in on the same groups. Think this enormous power would ever get abused (not saying it has) but with money involved, when is more likely than if.
I'd simply like the power to be wielded a little more solemnly.