StrictlyExotics
New member
One other thing Nicole...
You honestly may not have realized, or remembered, that you said that it would help you clean up your name by doing a donation for Chuck as it might have not been that big of a deal for you. We all forget things that we say, when it wasnt important to us.
But, the Wise's heard it from you. Now, they too, could have mistakenly heard something that you didnt quite mean, but took that way as well. Its all in the context and how things are received. In my honest opinion, the Wise's have absolutely nothing to gain by lying in regards to your conversation with them. They could have said, "hey guys, its about the cause, not the donor". Everyone would go on their merry little way.
Whether or not they solicited a donation from you or Ed, is this really the issue at hand here and now? There is a family with a lost daughter and someones husband and father clinging on for his very life. These people are what matter right now. Even if your motive was "simply to donate" without any praise, then lets get on with the donating and stop dragging this @#$% through the mud.
Lets not make it about the donor Nicole. Lets make it about the cause. If you do that, in the long run, you will take some of that tarnish off of your name, even if its not your intent.
You honestly may not have realized, or remembered, that you said that it would help you clean up your name by doing a donation for Chuck as it might have not been that big of a deal for you. We all forget things that we say, when it wasnt important to us.
But, the Wise's heard it from you. Now, they too, could have mistakenly heard something that you didnt quite mean, but took that way as well. Its all in the context and how things are received. In my honest opinion, the Wise's have absolutely nothing to gain by lying in regards to your conversation with them. They could have said, "hey guys, its about the cause, not the donor". Everyone would go on their merry little way.
Whether or not they solicited a donation from you or Ed, is this really the issue at hand here and now? There is a family with a lost daughter and someones husband and father clinging on for his very life. These people are what matter right now. Even if your motive was "simply to donate" without any praise, then lets get on with the donating and stop dragging this @#$% through the mud.
Lets not make it about the donor Nicole. Lets make it about the cause. If you do that, in the long run, you will take some of that tarnish off of your name, even if its not your intent.
