Anyway, if the guys I wished thrown out of my yard, or out of the theatre, then wanted to gather in my friend's yard to badmouth/slander me, I guess I'd consider that neighbor wasn't my friend any more, and I might say, "well, then you're not welcome in my yard any more." Sometimes relationships are broken by what seem like inconsequential first steps that grow more and more out of control, and i think that may be as good an explanation as any other of what happened here. Rich, am i way off base? I certainly don't mean to be.