ToshaMc
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Mooing Tricycle said:Emailing him about his advice to her, or whatever it was, and talking about that IS personal. And not really your concern. ( do i personally care, in the end that you did? not really... its not my beef, im just here to point out what others might be thinking) Fact of the matter is, it was not told TO you by him. Regardless if it was really true or not. I think that is the point others are trying to make.
It was not your place to email the vet to talk about advice that was not given to you.
Now, in my opinion, If you had emailed to ask SPECIFICALLY only about the virus, and jen never came up, save for maybe what inspiried you to ask in the first place "theres a girl that has said she is dealing with this through you, so i have a few questions about the virus in general, can you please elaborate on it for me" and he replied, and told you about the virus, that wouldnt be an issue ( in my eyes). But asking anything regarding if her collection MIGHT be clean, is personal. at least, i think so.
Now, if you had information that you could use to help prove your opinion that it is too soon to release those animals and prove they might still be sick, as i did with those IBD reports in Dan's thread ( and why i called a vet to ask what one would look for in the reports to know if a snake was positive) then go for that. Bringing the person up, and speaking about their collection, and the maybes involved in it though, is not right.
I am getting the impression that you think that I contacted him to discuss Jens issues or the virus - which I did not. I fully believed that the advice he supposedly gave was irresponsible and detrimental to our community - I exercised my right to tell him as much. I purposefully focused mainly on him and his supposed advice as to not make it personal with Jen - my criticisms were with the adviser so that is where I filed my complaint - you may have moral issue with it but he even makes a comment about it being a good idea to check with the someone before you make assumptions - anyway, I don't make apologies for it. Well except for to the Dr. for ranting on something he didn't do - but he understood and agreed.