Serafirm, Dennis
Serafirm...As of right now I have sent $100 I gave to the area where she made the request to have help given.
Dennis....Yeah anyone can find a reason here not to donate. Heck I can myself (lol) But it takes a real perosn to help another out even when they have made mistakes and not just walk away or spit on them(colorful language) or turn thier backs. I wasn't trying to make people feel shameful. The shame one feels is from choices he or she made themselves. Not what another person can impose on them. If one did nothing wrong he or she will feel no shame

I have never felt any shame nor should anyone else in this matter =) Unless... I won't go there =)
I'm not here to make enemies. I will be here to help the next person out who falls in the same spot as Jen did. No matter how colorful thier language was or thoughts was

Cause I'm affraid we haven't seen the last of this virus.
This all being said I decided not to bring this topic up anymore on here cause my intentions where never to force anyone to help. I was simply trying to explain where she needed help. So many seem to be stray as to where it is needed. I've done my part and will continue to help and stay in contact with Jen. I just don't want things here getting worse then they have already because of something I said. I value and want to respect the choices of those who choose what ever they want to do in this matter =) I would say I'm sorry to those who feel shameful from what I said...but it wouldn't make sense with the first part of this to Dennis (lol)Sorry=( I hope to contiue to be on good terms with you all. I'm Sorry if you feel we can't be =(
JOHN