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Jerry Conway - Unethical Practices

jerry conway said:
do people ask you what you do with your animals after you complete a deal?....do they follow up to see what price you sell them for?....do they care if you trade or sell them

If the animals were obtained under specific charitable pretenses, then yes. Yes they do.
 
Jerry,

You had a golden opportunity here to explain and come clean and instead you went into a vicious attack. You turned out to be your worst enemy with this post. :shrug01:

amazing....how people come out of the reptile woodwork to trash someone with a good reputation because some guy thinks he is holier than thou.....

Holier than thou? :NoNo: He just stated what happened. He wanted $400 for his breeders you offered $50, he then offered you $300 yo said "sold". Babies were worth $5 for you but all of a sudden their turn into $50 "just born" candoia.

its incredible how rumors get started in here.....[/QUOTE

:rolleyes: It's not a rumor is the truth, which you have just confirmed.

....are you all that perfect?....

Not a single one, but at least we recognize it, which is a step towards betterment. Now if you are not only not perfect but you also consider yourseld "the one and only", then there's where the problem lies.

.....bottom line is that once a transaction is completed, the buyer, which was me, can do whatever they want with the animals....we are here to make money...

Yes, you can do whatever you'd like with the snakes you purchased. Negotiation is OK but you have to be open about it. Not turn around and have a several hundred percent profit and deceive first about the destinity of the animals, second about their age. It's not about making money at any cost; it's about business ethics.

in addition to providing care for the well being of the animals in question....its the american way to negotiate and try to get a lower price....dont you people try to talk someone down on the price before you agree on the final sale?.....

Yes, probably almost everyone does; but there are ways and ways.

get real.....people worldwide, respect my knowledge of candoia....they are willing to pay a bit more because it comes with my expertise attached....as far as the guy with the $75 price quote....he wanted a light phase single specimen....i had found a few small anoles and the snake that he wanted had already eaten....

Well you could probably rephrase that sentence in the past tense right after your last post.

i use ups shipping next day air....ups has raised their price once again as of january first....the box i was planning to use would have cost me approximately $60 - $75 to ship

What kind of material are your boxesw made of? Oak? It's a baby candoia isn't it?

....i stand by my actions....i did nothing wrong.....

You will be suprised how many people will think differently. But according to you they will all be probably wrong. :rolleyes:

i have large medical bills to pay....i need to look out for number one....

Do you think you are the only one?

its nobodys business what i do with the animals i have just bought....period....

Well, maybe you are right. It was your name and your reputation and you did with it as you wish.

and in closing....thanks bw....you have done nothing to ruin my good reputation....

So in order to maintain the reputation you had, you want BW to maintain your MO in secret. You can do as you wish with the snakes you bought, right? BW can do as he wishes with the information at hand, and he did it.

all you have done was to give some other people something to vent about in here on a boring sunday afternoon....i think you are an uppity pompous ass....enjoy your day up on your high ethical horse .......jc

At this point it seems BW horse is a Shetland pony by comparison.

Thanks.
 
Wow...so because you are from New York, it's ok to lie, cheat and steal? None of your excuses that you blow off as "New Yorker negotiation" justifies a) renegotiating after the deal was made and the seller graciously shipped before being paid not because the animals were any different than what you expected, but just to weasel a few bucks out of someone who as far as you are concerned actually IS on a moral high horse. Being on the moral high horse isn't a bad thing and can only be ridiculed by those slithering around down in the manure UNDER said high horse.

So..to recap what I have seen and heard here and to explain my stance that you are a liar, cheater and theif...

Lies: 1-convincing BW that he is sending his snakes to someone who will take care of them...not toss them into the pet trade. BW's goal was to get them to someone experienced in getting them feeding in hopes of improving their chances of survival.

2- Lying about the age of the snakes on your ad.

Cheating: You used the advantage you gained from getting the animals first to cheat BW out of 100 bucks. Again, thinking the animals were going to a great home and helping out a fellow breeder/herper swayed him into succumbing to your "New York Negotiation".

Stealing: well...cheating someone out of money is the same as stealing in any book.
 
we were nice to each other on the phone last nite....and i really didnt think he would post...i thought we had it "resolved" and that we were both ok with it....but he posted it anyway, causing all of these personal atacks on me....it was between the 2 of us....now the entire reptile world is attacking me here.....i truly cant be bothered....my health comes first....i needed to do what i did financially.....i truly dont care what all you attackers feel about me.....my buddy in fort lauderdale has already fed all of the babies....they are fine....i just dont understand why you all give a s**t ....its still none of your business....you are not my friends, so i dont expect you to understand.....take care....jerry
 
There really was nothing to resolve. I called you as a courtesy to express my displeasure and to hear your side rather than having you blind sided by a thread. I was not and am not trying get anything. I am simply sharing my experience with others. Not once have I resorted name calling as you have. I never even labeled you as a "Bad Guy". I just presented information that is open to interpretation. How others react and respond is not my responsibility.
 
well, i hope you are happy....what did you think was going to happen with your post?....you could have kept it between us....this must be a big ego booster for you....you know how people with nothing better to do like to jump on the posters bandwagon on this site....i am done with this crap....thanks again for stressing me out and putting my stomach in knots....i am outta here
 
It's really sad that you are so wrapped up in your "me first" mentality that you are unable to see how bad that you appear to other people. Many men can only see in their own hearts and believe that everyone else is just like them. You don't even possess enough knowledge to feel embarrassed.
 
once again....i dont give a crap what you people in particular think of me....you all feel the need to add your 2 cents in here....i have my regular customers who appreciate my animals...they will continue to buy from me as always....some people actually have a life and dont sit at their keyboards trashing people like all of you....bw could have kept this private....i think hes the one you should be trashing....he had no reason to start this on a public forum....he wimped out instead of being the alleged "great soul" that you claim him to be....what did he expect to gain from this post?....i'll tell you....this is what he wanted....total strangers bashing me over a private dealing....he had no right....and i dont give a s**t
 
once again....i dont give a crap what you people in particular think of me....you all feel the need to add your 2 cents in here....i have my regular customers who appreciate my animals...they will continue to buy from me as always....some people actually have a life and dont sit at their keyboards trashing people like all of you....bw could have kept this private....i think hes the one you should be trashing....he had no reason to start this on a public forum....he wimped out instead of being the alleged "great soul" that you claim him to be....what did he expect to gain from this post?....i'll tell you....this is what he wanted....total strangers bashing me over a private dealing....he had no right....and i dont give a s**t

1. How would your regular customers feel once they know they purchase candoia for $5 and turn around and sell them as yours for $50...? Let me think for a while this is a hard one... :rolleyes: 2. How would they feel when they learn that you negotiated the price on some adult candoia to build-up your collection again? Let me think for a while this is a hard one... :rolleyes: 3.How would they feel when they learn you wanted to keep this private and pass the candoias as your own? Let me think for a while this is a hard one... :rolleyes: 2.
 
A good business person would encourage people to openly discuss their transactions. I hate that you have handled this situation so poorly. I did not expect such behavior from you.
 
hey dan, mind yer own business.... nowhere in my kingsnake ad does it say that i bred those 31 babies....i never claimed they were my own...nor the adults....go away...watch a football game or something....oh wait....i forgot, you are one of the many here that have no life and feel the need to bash me....amazing
 
The BoidSmith said:
1How would they feel when they learn that you negotiated the price on some adult candoia to build-up your collection again? [

Let me clarify that it was not the fact that price was negotiated. It was that we had agreed on a price, then he tried to lowball me to 1/4 of the agreed price AFTER he received them and prior to payment. There is definitely nothing wrong with negotiations on the front end.
 
you know how people with nothing better to do like to jump on the posters bandwagon on this site
i guess that would be me. this is like my 6th post in the many years i have been here. it takes a real 'donkey' to make me come out of the woodwork and post.
 
I AM DONE.....THINK WHAT YOU MAY....NONE OF YOU KNOW ME....NONE OF YOU HAVE ANY GOOD REASON TO BASH ME THIS WAY ....OTHER THAN TO ADD FUEL TO THE GREAT SOULS FIRE WHO STARTED ALL THIS CRAP....WHAT DID YOU EXPECT ME TO DO BW?....SIT HERE AND TAKE ALL THIS??....YOU REALLY EXPECT ME TO BE A NICE GUY AND GET TRASHED BY TOTAL STRANGERS BECAUSE YOU COULDNT KEEP IT PRIVATE?....YOU HAVE NO CLUE....NO TACT....AND YOU CALL YOURSELF A GREAT BUSINESSMAN....ALL OF YOU CAN GO TO HELL
 
i finally see it clearly now. brian is the bad guy for helping you out and giving you the babies free not even knowing you and you are the good guy because you are selling the babies for 50.00 each to people you call your friends and people who are willing to do business with you. i don't know how brian sleeps at night. :rolleyes: what a terrible injustice that has been done to you.
 
Dennis Hultman said:
I don't recall it being stated but why did Jerry did help rebuilding his collection?

Did something happen to his collection?

I don't recall it being stated but why did Jerry need help rebuilding his collection?

Did something happen to his collection?
 
Jerry, I do not know you, but your actions according to others, and the way you are handling yourself here, paints a picture of a self wallowing bottom feeder.

If you said you would buy a pair of adults, especially if part of the deal was you getting babies pretty much for free, and then you renegotiate the price after you already have the snakes, that is a bad guy in my book. Unless there is a good reason to not pay the agreed upon price, mites, ticks, RI, etc., once you have the snakes, you pay for them. Your business ethics leave ALOT to be desired.

Dave
 
jerry conway said:
bw could have kept this private.......he had no reason to start this on a public forum....

If you didn't do anything wrong Jerry, why is it such a big deal that BW posted this thread?

Personally, I'm glad he did. Between his information, and how you've acted on this thread, I now know you are not someone I want to do business with, ever.
 
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