mcgrath5860 said:
Alicia I do agree that these forums do weed out the good from the bad but what good is it if the facts stated are all wrong and the people have to apologize and continually have to say "My Bad". Reputations get spoile and it leaves a bad taste in everyones mouth. I just ask that people get things right and leave all the other BS out of it.
I Agree to that,
Somtimes it IS hard when both parties are feeling Ripped off by the other, and tempers rise. Things are said, that probably shouldnt have been said, as per usual when these sorts of threads come about. Theyre harsh, they damage not only your ego, but your name as well. Most truly good guys though, can recover from posts like this and move on with their lives and work hard not to see another post like it!
its not just facts that are wrong, but it almost always boils down to a misunderstanding in the end. People get wrong information( Read: vague), and make silly assumptions and go from there. Being angry just fuels that fire and usually rationality just dissapears!
What makes this place so great, is that.. when those who have the Guts to apologize.. when they are truly wrong about somone or a position they took, they do, and usually truly mean it when they say "sorry... i got you all wrong" or "sorry i didnt really mean to say things like that".
of course Some dont care, but at that point why even think about them. Boo hoo, sorry theyre too proud to admit to wrongdoing. ( helping to explain what everyone means about ones true colors.... it all comes out in the end)
Its hard online, things are typed up in a flurry of anger ( most Bad Guy posts are) and people dont just step back and read what theyve written several times before posting. (somtimes its confusing though

you should see some of my posts somtimes!!! LOL)
I would actually consider this post fairly good, as it turned out in the end and things were somewhat solved and mostly apologized for.
I just hope to see that both people can truly recover from this, and move on and learn from it.
