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Bad Guy Kathryn Wrubel - katiscresteds.com

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Back in Dec, I contacted Kati about a crested she had for sale. I was gullible enough to fall for her con job, and not finding any bad feedback on her, I trusted her. I am out $820.00.

I first contacted Kati about geckos on her site. She informed me she only had three left, one of which was the white I love. She told me he never changes. She also warned me about people claiming their crested geckos were actally moonglows, when in fact they are just fired down reds or buckskins. I found one case in all her posts here where someone said something to her on her add for this particular crested gecko, but the add was removed. I believed her about the person when she stated the flack she gets from certain people, and that the admin have warned THEM. Because there was nothing negative, and all positive, I went ahead and started payments. It was supposed to go until the end of feb, but due to medical emergencies, it enters to the last of March.. Last payment made on April 1st. He couldn't be sent anyway due to weather.

I had asked questions, some were "put off"... and it wasn't until after he was paid that she told me things.. ie: he's 7-8 years old, and he came from a hobby breeder where she purchased a bundle and she found him under everyone else. :| That didn't sit well with me, but he was on his way so I will see when he gets here. I Was excited, my kids were excited.. then we open the box

He was brown. Not white.. he was fired up.

I contacted her about this, not really sure what to say without letting the jersey come out..and she said to let him calm down. Two days later, another pic.. still brown.... yesterday, another pic.. still not white or even cream.

Ok, I know.. and before you say anything, I trusted her and figured, she's had him for a while at least, surely this person who has nothing but good posted about her is telling the truth. If he fired up, maybe it was just the yellowing got darker where it wouldn't be that noticable.. but honestly, how anyone doesn't see a crested get fired up over the years she's had him, is beyond me.

She offered to send me free of charge the last two geckos she had, of which I am not interested in. I gave her two choices.. either refund my money and have whoever she used for shipping come pick him up due to false advertising, or refund 690 and consider the 110 full payment for a pet quality gecko with shipping. She did not respond. I filed a dispute with paypal on three of the 5 transactions (last two I sent were personal, and no she didn't ask me for that..) so I figure I bit it on those two, but what I didn't know was that there is No buyer protection for multiple payments on ONE item. If she responds, the case is closed and It goes in her favor. Well, she couldn't respond to me but she responded to them. I'm waiting to see if I can get screen shots, but she claims she told me he changes and referred to her site for policy. She should have referred to her false advert about him being a moonglow.

Admin, I don't want to upload images to another site to post here.. if I can get an email, I can forward every single email from start to end, as well as photos.

This gecko is far from high end. And certainly not worth near what she got for him. I know she won't care because she only has two left to sell, but if this helps anyone else see that she is less then honest, then so be it.

I'm doing this from my phone so it's harder to navigate.

Guys, I'm really upset about this and by posting here, I expect to hear flack... I had a hard time coming here to post bast on what I have seen in others... but I stand by my claim, feeling like a total nimrod already. I've cried enough over the trust I gave and just don't need to be battered more, so please take it easy.

You need full names, mine is Lisa Groelly (Stillwagon)
 
I'm uploading screen shots and pictures now. I informed her via email I was going to report her.. actually went to Facebook and she blocked my fb account, which is funny as I haven't contacted her via fb since Dec.

I'm trying to copy the picture Addy from the file I uploaded them to but it won't let me.. The add she had on here is no longer there but I have screen shots of her site and an archived piece of the add she had here. I'd love for her to be sent this thread.. since she has ignored me and my refund request and lied to paypal.
 
It seems as if Kati does have a good reputation and I'm sure she would like to maintain that rep even if she will no longer be selling critters. Here is an older article about her:
http://tuftsjournal.tufts.edu/archive/2007/october/features/gecko.shtml

I would certainly like to hear her take on all this, because it does seem as if you paid a lot of money for a white gecko and it appears that the one you received did not live up to your expectations.
 
I filed a dispute with paypal on three of the 5 transactions (last two I sent were personal, and no she didn't ask me for that..) so I figure I bit it on those two

If what you are saying is that you sent 'friends and family' payment, why would you do that?
 
I'm really trying to get the photos uploaded. If you look at the album, you will see her tell me he is NOT a fired up buckskin, that he doesn't change. You can also see the photos she posted on her site, as well as photos I have been taking of him. I told her I was posting here, but considering she's ignored my request for a refund, and blocked me on fb when I haven't even tried to contact her there in this regards, tells me she doesn't care. I know about that thread.. and the good feedback is what I went by.. but you can see for yourself that she was not honest.
 
The friends and family was my own stupid fault.. but the first three I did not.. even if I hadnt, and sent for payment, I would not be covered under buyer protection.. I gave her the option to handle this the right way, but she ignored me.. so I tried to do what I could to salvage this and I can't even do that. Paypal does NOT protect buyers on multiple payments on one item.
 
Let's take a look at that article... either she doesn't know as much as she claims, which makes that article look uncrdible and a joke, or she does and deliberately cons people. I'm sure the person who wrote that article would feel the same.
 
Lisa, what is the email address you used to notify Kati? I tried to send her a link but was unable to successfully get in touch with her, her PM box is full and the email to her crested business did not go through for me.
I do think that she should have an opportunity to respond here.
 
The fact that she calls him a moonglow is a huge red flag for me. Anyone who has been around cresties long enough knows that moonglows are not a real thing. Theyre a myth in the crestie world. Sorry you got taken for a lot of money for something that doesnt exist.
 
Yes it was.. I posted the album ..it's the only one I have under hard name. Still trying to figure out how to get the images posted to this thread.
 
Leftycrane, I feel like a total dope.. but I can't let that stop me from putting it out there. I've been speaking to a lot of others and before post I ng what happened, showed both fired up and down pics of him, and asked him what he would be worth. I believe the most was 60 bucks. Plus someone said he didn't even have good structure so he would be considered pet only. After I declined taking the last two cresteds she owns (so not interested), I gave her two options and she refused to respond. Instead, she lied to paypal and blocked me on fb.. I gave her the benefit since I received him, and she doesn't seem to care that she did this.. so, I'm at the point where I don't care how awful I feel, .. she did wrong, and it needs to be known.
 
Oh I absolutely agree with you. She did wrong and it should be brought to light. I am sorry you got taken for this. I hope something comes through with it for you.
 
What did she say to Paypal, can you please post that conversation?
I successfully sent her a link to this thread, I hope she will respond.
 
I tried to view in paypal but I couldnt.. I'm going to give them a call and ask to see the response. They read it to me this morning.
 
From what paypal said this morning, she told them that she told me geckos change color, and to refer to her policy on her site. Umm ... I have every blasted email back and forth with her, and unless I missed something, she did not say this gecko changed. On the contrary.. I took screen shots of two emails where she not only told me he NEVER changes, and that he is not a fired down buckskin, but she also warned me about other breeders .
 
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