woW!
ME??
news to me, that is me being the bad guy...
Seems that I asked Lori for proof of the accusations towards the other admins.
Guess what?
She has not shown any!
If there are complaints about me, pertaining to any actions I took in an administrative standing, guess what else?
I ran them through other members, usually Lori first, then other admins and mods and the odd occasion, regular members.
If any of the asked parties dissagreed, then I took NO action.
Let's see.. I locked 3 accounts while in the process, two of the accounts were at LORIS request since I am on cable and she on dial up. (she asked me since it takes forever for dial up to load){both accounts were Boababes)
The other account was a member that had 100% of his posts locked or deleted due to flames and ya know what?
NOONE dissagreed with it.
I also have proof of why I deleted posts, IE: Screen captures.
Does Lori?
I don't take things as personally as some others did.
If I have a problem with a post, if not a violation of common sense, then I get the member on PM or in chat and figure out what steps to take.
If I move a post or delete one, I often send a PM to the member, letting them know why.
Usually it is a double post or in the wrong forum.
Many times I even include the URL of the posts new home.
There are even a few members that have had many problems on many forums with many people other than the admins of RH.
There are some people that you just can't please.
Some will take ANY dissagreement with them as a personal attack.
The same people think that the higher the post count, the smarter they are and the better their image is seen.
Oddly enough, these people always start stuff, in forums and in PMs, then claim innocence and cry foul when they are told to knock it off.
Same type also goes absolutely bonkers when their post count drops, making flames and posting like a mad man to keep the post count as high as possible.
We did a major forum clean up on another site a few months ago, only ONE person complained since they thought it was a personal attack on them.
BTW, I am at a NEGATIVE 70 some posts there due to the clean-up.
Is that account locked?
No.
I have at least one person that I had a minor dissagreement with MANY months ago, that although this member tried to trash me, my entire family and everything about me, not just on RH but on other sites and their chats.
Did I lock their account?
No.
Others saw the same patterns and decided to simply ignore them.
Usually ignoring people like that will achieve a better result in a shorter time period.
Problem solved.
The only 'complaints' I can think of are most likely from the political threads that pop up from time to time.
If some one is offended that I show that they have ben miss-led
with REAL and TRUE information, then sorry, maybe they should have done their homework just a little bit better.
Then again, some of the nastiest threads and posts were from members that were only online to find pity for themselves, the 'Look at me!' types that are insecure enough that they need to be constantly praised otherwise they will wallow in depression and self pity.
Is it really right, to tell them that what they do is correct, although in our hearts and minds, we know, that it is not?
So Devin-puppet, until we see some actual proof of the accusations made by Lori, along with undeniable links and screen captures of where we went bad, then I suggest that you take the time to take up another hobby, besides being Loris puppet.
And also, Devin,
man, ya like a bro to me.
Unfortunately families fight and argue sometimes.
I do hope that after its all done with, we can both be men and get over whatever is going on.
ME??
news to me, that is me being the bad guy...
Seems that I asked Lori for proof of the accusations towards the other admins.
Guess what?
She has not shown any!
If there are complaints about me, pertaining to any actions I took in an administrative standing, guess what else?
I ran them through other members, usually Lori first, then other admins and mods and the odd occasion, regular members.
If any of the asked parties dissagreed, then I took NO action.
Let's see.. I locked 3 accounts while in the process, two of the accounts were at LORIS request since I am on cable and she on dial up. (she asked me since it takes forever for dial up to load){both accounts were Boababes)
The other account was a member that had 100% of his posts locked or deleted due to flames and ya know what?
NOONE dissagreed with it.
I also have proof of why I deleted posts, IE: Screen captures.
Does Lori?
I don't take things as personally as some others did.
If I have a problem with a post, if not a violation of common sense, then I get the member on PM or in chat and figure out what steps to take.
If I move a post or delete one, I often send a PM to the member, letting them know why.
Usually it is a double post or in the wrong forum.
Many times I even include the URL of the posts new home.
There are even a few members that have had many problems on many forums with many people other than the admins of RH.
There are some people that you just can't please.
Some will take ANY dissagreement with them as a personal attack.
The same people think that the higher the post count, the smarter they are and the better their image is seen.
Oddly enough, these people always start stuff, in forums and in PMs, then claim innocence and cry foul when they are told to knock it off.
Same type also goes absolutely bonkers when their post count drops, making flames and posting like a mad man to keep the post count as high as possible.
We did a major forum clean up on another site a few months ago, only ONE person complained since they thought it was a personal attack on them.
BTW, I am at a NEGATIVE 70 some posts there due to the clean-up.
Is that account locked?
No.
I have at least one person that I had a minor dissagreement with MANY months ago, that although this member tried to trash me, my entire family and everything about me, not just on RH but on other sites and their chats.
Did I lock their account?
No.
Others saw the same patterns and decided to simply ignore them.
Usually ignoring people like that will achieve a better result in a shorter time period.
Problem solved.
The only 'complaints' I can think of are most likely from the political threads that pop up from time to time.
If some one is offended that I show that they have ben miss-led
with REAL and TRUE information, then sorry, maybe they should have done their homework just a little bit better.
Then again, some of the nastiest threads and posts were from members that were only online to find pity for themselves, the 'Look at me!' types that are insecure enough that they need to be constantly praised otherwise they will wallow in depression and self pity.
Is it really right, to tell them that what they do is correct, although in our hearts and minds, we know, that it is not?
So Devin-puppet, until we see some actual proof of the accusations made by Lori, along with undeniable links and screen captures of where we went bad, then I suggest that you take the time to take up another hobby, besides being Loris puppet.
And also, Devin,
man, ya like a bro to me.
Unfortunately families fight and argue sometimes.
I do hope that after its all done with, we can both be men and get over whatever is going on.