Chameleon Company
New member
Matt,
I don't have a problem with the way you handled things, as it was your risk to take. In hindsight, we all would have done things differently. I think in part Neil is stating things as advice for other readers, as so many posts in the BOI are written as much for the uninvolved reader to learn from as for the participants. Some risk is inherent with all trades, more so than with cash, as Ken and others noted. Your situation, in dealing with a "small-time" entity, would suggest to readers that one could still get the other party to provide specific references that are identifiable to you, and that a person would then call these people. A standard that can be used in such deals as to "who ships first" is that if one entity is well-known and reputable, and the other not, or one can at least provide credible and verifiable references, and the other not, then the one without the credentials must ship first. In this way, the newbie would begin to establish verifiable references. If not, then the reputable party has to say "no deal".
My view is that you have no obligation to Luis, that his failure to uphold his end of the deal, or then get a timely necropsy once you made the offer, means he should bite the bullet on this one. I hope the offer of the intermediary helps, but am not optimistic. If nothing else, others can refer to this in researching Luis in the future. Hope you get some restitution.
I don't have a problem with the way you handled things, as it was your risk to take. In hindsight, we all would have done things differently. I think in part Neil is stating things as advice for other readers, as so many posts in the BOI are written as much for the uninvolved reader to learn from as for the participants. Some risk is inherent with all trades, more so than with cash, as Ken and others noted. Your situation, in dealing with a "small-time" entity, would suggest to readers that one could still get the other party to provide specific references that are identifiable to you, and that a person would then call these people. A standard that can be used in such deals as to "who ships first" is that if one entity is well-known and reputable, and the other not, or one can at least provide credible and verifiable references, and the other not, then the one without the credentials must ship first. In this way, the newbie would begin to establish verifiable references. If not, then the reputable party has to say "no deal".
My view is that you have no obligation to Luis, that his failure to uphold his end of the deal, or then get a timely necropsy once you made the offer, means he should bite the bullet on this one. I hope the offer of the intermediary helps, but am not optimistic. If nothing else, others can refer to this in researching Luis in the future. Hope you get some restitution.
(since I dont always act rationally when upset, I think this is better than going right now.) I made Him aware of this, and My reasons behind it. The deal will go as planned, but will continue right here at My place.