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I tried to let it go for a day and come at this with a fresh mind, but I can't sleep. I am a little angry because I should not have sold her and never felt right about the deal. She was one of my favorite cresteds and I should have just kept her as a pet instead of trying to clear room to concentrate on colubrids and balls. I want to keep this more professional but can't help it that my feelings about some things are coming into play with my decision and my shortness.
First off, I can't find it but in his first email he lowballed me on the $250 and said she wasn't worth more because she had a nipped tail, was only good for breeding, and he sees them at shows all the time. I should have said no and regret it now. I feel like I sold her out in the name of "making room". And later in the email above he said he never had a good feeling about me, but still wasn't in a hurry to contact me when he said she was having problems adjusting?
Second he never updated me at all on how she was or what was going on, or even that she arrived. For the last 3 years she was kept in a 66qt. Sterilite rack, never misted, and kept in the mid to high 70's in summer and high 60's to mid 70's in winter. So as drastic a change as he said he put her through would easily stress out a female acclimated to the conditions I kept her in. Too much change to fast isn't a good thing and if he would have contacted me earlier we could have figured it out or he could have sent her back.
Third, I honestly think he is lying. He doesn't have a job... but has a real estate signature in his emails. He has had sixteen geckos since summer.... now he apparently is one of the first people to own them in the country (over a decade of experience).
I'm not one to say no to people when they have issues. I usually just hand them a replacement or refund their money. I've replaced things I know I had nothing to do with because it's not really a big deal. But for some reason this feels different then every other time.
Healthy animals don't just die. I know that, but I also know that an animal doesn't need to be sick to die. I have a freezer full of what were healthy mice to prove that. I don't know what happened but I do think it's more than he is saying. She wasn't thin, she was eating well, she had good calcium reserves in her sacs, she hadn't recently laid eggs (+20 days), she wasn't old.
Something about the whole thing just doesn't feel right. And I'm really mad at myself for not going with my instincts in the first place. Maybe I'm wrong in this, either way it's here now and if someone doesn't want to buy from me because of it that's OK.
Here are a few more of the emails.....
[email protected] <[email protected]> Mon, Oct 4, 2010 at 10:43 PM
Reply-To: [email protected]
To: Bill Ryder <[email protected]>
I received your payment, thank you. I will get her out Wed for delivery on Thurs morning. I'll email you the tracking number when I set the shipment up on Wed. If your schedule changes let me know.
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
-----Original Message-----
From: Bill Ryder <[email protected]>
Sender: [email protected]
________________________________________
Bill Ryder <[email protected]> Tue, Oct 5, 2010 at 12:01 AM
To: [email protected]
Sounds good. Thanks!
-Bill
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Thanks!
Sincerely,
Bill Ryder
First off, I can't find it but in his first email he lowballed me on the $250 and said she wasn't worth more because she had a nipped tail, was only good for breeding, and he sees them at shows all the time. I should have said no and regret it now. I feel like I sold her out in the name of "making room". And later in the email above he said he never had a good feeling about me, but still wasn't in a hurry to contact me when he said she was having problems adjusting?
Second he never updated me at all on how she was or what was going on, or even that she arrived. For the last 3 years she was kept in a 66qt. Sterilite rack, never misted, and kept in the mid to high 70's in summer and high 60's to mid 70's in winter. So as drastic a change as he said he put her through would easily stress out a female acclimated to the conditions I kept her in. Too much change to fast isn't a good thing and if he would have contacted me earlier we could have figured it out or he could have sent her back.
Third, I honestly think he is lying. He doesn't have a job... but has a real estate signature in his emails. He has had sixteen geckos since summer.... now he apparently is one of the first people to own them in the country (over a decade of experience).
I'm not one to say no to people when they have issues. I usually just hand them a replacement or refund their money. I've replaced things I know I had nothing to do with because it's not really a big deal. But for some reason this feels different then every other time.
Healthy animals don't just die. I know that, but I also know that an animal doesn't need to be sick to die. I have a freezer full of what were healthy mice to prove that. I don't know what happened but I do think it's more than he is saying. She wasn't thin, she was eating well, she had good calcium reserves in her sacs, she hadn't recently laid eggs (+20 days), she wasn't old.
Something about the whole thing just doesn't feel right. And I'm really mad at myself for not going with my instincts in the first place. Maybe I'm wrong in this, either way it's here now and if someone doesn't want to buy from me because of it that's OK.
Here are a few more of the emails.....
[email protected] <[email protected]> Mon, Oct 4, 2010 at 10:43 PM
Reply-To: [email protected]
To: Bill Ryder <[email protected]>
I received your payment, thank you. I will get her out Wed for delivery on Thurs morning. I'll email you the tracking number when I set the shipment up on Wed. If your schedule changes let me know.
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
-----Original Message-----
From: Bill Ryder <[email protected]>
Sender: [email protected]
________________________________________
Bill Ryder <[email protected]> Tue, Oct 5, 2010 at 12:01 AM
To: [email protected]
Sounds good. Thanks!
-Bill
[Quoted text hidden]
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Thanks!
Sincerely,
Bill Ryder



