Just a second, please.
Exactly what is everyone's definition of "tattling" that is being bandied about in this thread? Please tell me who is the admin on this site and the person ultimately responsible for the way it runs? Who exactly is the person someone should go to if they see possible abuses taking place? I'm curious about how you all think such things should be handled.
If someone here does NOT have the
capability of being able to correct something that appears to be an abuse, whether it is against them or someone else, what exactly are they supposed to do about it? Ignore it? Sure, that's fine, if that is what EVERYONE feels is the best course of action. If that is the way you all want it, then how about I take it further so we can prevent anyone else from "tattling" ever again here?
How about if I remove the "Report a post" link? How about I remove all moderators so there is no one to even "tattle" to? How about I remove my own email address and the capability to PM me as well? Why don't I just allow everyone here to run around like wild Indians doing what the hell they want to do and smack anyone who does find a way to contact me with the label of "tattle tale" and send them on their merry way? Shoot enough messengers, and certainly the messages will stop, now won't they?
Is that what you want? I believe there was a poll a while back when I asked about how you all wanted me to enforce the rules. Do you want me to dredge that up and compare names with those people who said they wanted the rules more strictly enforced with what is being stated within this thread?
So tell me, just exactly HOW do you propose that myself or the mods learn of any abuses taking place on this site? Have you looked over the warning points list (
http://www.faunaclassifieds.com/forums/warn.php?)? LOOK at it NOW please. Notice that some of them would be highly improbable that I would ever learn about them unless someone else reported it to me. Should I just remove those penalties then, rather then run the risk that someone will be labeled as "tattling" if they did what they are SUPPOSED to do and notify me about them?
Again, who exactly is someone supposed to go to on this site when they see a perceived problem? If not the owner and admin of this site, then WHO please? And if this is not the preferred method of handling problems, then what is? Should a person who gets their "panties in a wad" as someone so elegantly phrased it, instead send private messages to all of their friends and instead try to instigate some sort of war or conflict? Should Lucille instead of contacting me tried contacting everyone she felt would be on her side and then try to gather support that way? Is that the preferred method to do things around here now? If so, please let me know so I can change the manner in which I handle and interpret such things around here in the future.