Nosy Jim
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Care to elaborate? Did you happen to pay with a credit or debit card? If so, you have recourse via whatever financial institution issued the card to you.
I paid using paypal and it came out of my checking account thats linked to it. If you could Pm I would appreciate it. I kept asking him for more pictures while the payment was waiting to get cleared and he kept saying he was gonna send them and didnt. So I started feeling really sketchy about the whole thing. Once the payment went through he was asking me why do you want more pics as you already paid for him once I saw the first pics he sent me. He also told me if your not happy with him you can send him back for a refund mind you this was while payment was still in processing. Once the payment cleared I was in the hospital getting my appendix taken out so I didnt talk to him for 3-4 days. When I got out I contacted him andl let him know that I was concerned because he never sent me pics and I also just got out of the hospital and could use the money for my medical bill so I told him I just wanted out of the deal. He texted me that all sales are final. I then was like you already told me if I didnt like him I could get a refund and this was no different other than the fact that we both didnt have to ship an animal back and forth. The next day he told me that he felt bad that I had been sick and that he would give me $700 for my male and female ambilobe pair which I had mentioned to him originally for a possible trade for the Nosy be male. Here are some texts back n forth.
BRIAN: Weeks after u already paid. Ur the one making this deal uncomfortable not me. All cuz u want 2 or 3 more pics of the same cham that u already purchased after I already sent u a few pictures. ( This was his response after I told him I just wanted my money back)
BRIAN: Wen do u want me to ship him? Ur gonna have to sign for him wen he gets there.
ME: If you could ship him tomorrow that would be good so he would get here Tuesday( I just really didnt feel like arguing and just figured I would just take the cham)
BRIAN: I feel bad about the money situation your in and if your interested in a trade if you ship the ambilobe pair tom I will refund you 700 and ship the nosey be.
BRIAN: Ill throw in the extra 50 since its a pair
ME: Thats awesome thank you man
BRIAN: Cool that works out for both of us then. Lemme kno when u ship em nd ill send him and an instant payment.
BRIAN: Hey bud how old did u say that female ambilobe was again? Was it 6 months? How old are your nosey be babies? Can u text me a pic of the nicest one your selling?
BRIAN: Hey bud lemme kno if u shipped that pair today and if u did the tracking number. And then ill send ur paypal and ship your cham tom.
BRIAN: Hey what's goin on man? I'm tryin to help u out and do the trade instead and throwin in an extra 50. Atleast now u can take care of everything and still get the
BRIAN: Cham and make 50 bucks. Lemme kno wats goin on I'm really busy with work lately and need to know when everthings taken care of so I can ship him and send( he texted me this when I didnt return his text for a day)
ME: Sorry no I didn't ship that pair yet I will do it tomorrow i just reread your text , and ill send pics of nosy be, yes she is 6 months. So u will get them on Friday I would like my cham shipped today as I thought he was getting shipped on Tuesday so he would arrive here today I'm sorry we didn't get a chance to talk about the pair I was shipping to u or I didn't read ur text clearly . Brian please send my cham today once I receive him tomorrow and the PayPal (when I get ur tracking number ) I will send the pair to you. Call me anytime after 11am if u need to talk to me. ( This text was when I really thought about things and the fact that he was calling it a trade but he already had $650 of my money and had not shipped the Nosy be and he wanted me to ship the male and female ambilobe first and wouldnt send me the money till I gave him a tracking number)
ME: Brian never got him? Everything cool?
ME: What's up Brian?
BRIAN: He's goin out first thing in the morning. Sorry for the delay hell def ship tom I promise. ( Last time I had any communication with him July 5th)
ME: Brian just making sure u r shipping tonight. 4104 Waltham court, Yardley PA 19067. James Gloner
ME: Yo bud please let me know if were good or not now cause if were not than id rather know now than later
ME: Also plz send me tracking number?
ME: Brian I really hope you didn't leave me hanging and you shipped him as I stayed home from going down to my parents beach house to relax this weekend.
ME; Brian can u send me the tracking number or confirm u sent him I'm not quite understanding why ur just ignoring my texts? Thanks
ME: I guess the most frustrating thing is every time I sent u a text my phone sends a report back to me on whether u opened my text I don't want to sound crazy but u opened 6 outta 7 texts and u have me lost I hope u sent him and u just have a lot on ur plate but I don't know why I don't deserve a yes or no.
ME: Brian I am waiting up right now bud you can't tell me whether I'm wasting my time or if I'm good I'm really tired I got outta surgery last week still taking toll but I'm afraid of missing delivery
ME: I expect my money be returned to me by the end of the day I'm tired of the lies.
ME: Brian was your plan to have me send the female ambilobe and the male as well and then you never send me the money for them or the nosy be and royally screw me?
So I still havent gotten any response from him and he has not answered a single phone call for me. This Sucks! This is the first time I have been ripped off on the internet and I guess im always real trusting when dealing with chameleon people.