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* SEX *

How long do you wait before having sex?

  • I'm going to wait until I'm married

    Votes: 20 8.6%

  • I want to take the time to be good friends first

    Votes: 50 21.6%

  • I don't have to spend forever getting acquainted, but I have to like them

    Votes: 89 38.4%

  • I'm going to get into any pair of jeans I can

    Votes: 19 8.2%

  • They give me quantity discounts on condoms at the pharmacy

    Votes: 22 9.5%

  • Don't talk with your mouth full

    Votes: 32 13.8%
  • Total voters
    232
bcfos said:
So I guess a Peter North film festival and you will not go well together. Plus he shoots like a wus anyway..... ;)
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get real . he could paint your livign room in 2 shots . its his claim to fame. its what his entire carreer is based on
 
Lonermon said:
get real . he could paint your livign room in 2 shots . its his claim to fame. its what his entire carreer is based on
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Seeing that my living room is 20'X30' that sir would be one hellva load. ;)
 
Lonermon said:
good point , okay maybe the guest bathroom ( GRIN) :scatter:
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Now that would just piss me off. Walking into MY bathroom and seeing some strange jizz everywhere. That is a shooting offence around here. ;)
 
OK, I am pretty liberal about where conversations end up in these threads but jeez, THIS conversation has been in Brian's bathroom for a WHILE; surely those are not y'all's final dispositive thoughts on sex?
 
Considering VA and the army have lost some vital paperwork for my prescriptions, I am out of commission until it gets straightened out...except for the net porn and a couple VCR tapes and issues of Playgirl...thank the gods mom bought me half a case of batteries for christmas aas a "gag" gift!
 
lucille said:
OK, I am pretty liberal about where conversations end up in these threads but jeez, THIS conversation has been in Brian's bathroom for a WHILE; surely those are not y'all's final dispositive thoughts on sex?
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Who could have imagined that such an innocent *mature :D conversation would hit the gutter with flying colors. Ha ha ha!

BallPyFan said:
Considering VA and the army have lost some vital paperwork for my prescriptions, I am out of commission until it gets straightened out...except for the net porn and a couple VCR tapes and issues of Playgirl...thank the gods mom bought me half a case of batteries for christmas aas a "gag" gift!
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Batteries? Gag gift? I don't get it. :D Further explanation is needed.

As for the poll itself, if I like someone I can wait if need be, but honestly anything innocent I've ever had flew out the window ages ago. Why pretend? Actually, the deed usually goes down (pun intended) pretty damn quick. It's natural, of course, so why fight it?

Sean
 
Sean, BOB requires C batteries LOL (FYI BOB=Battery Operated Boyfriend...do I need to be more specific than that??????) My little sister got "Natural Breast Enhancement Supplements" as her gag gift LOL and that was just at mom's. Dad gave us each a case of RC so we'd quit fighting over who he bought the ones in the fridge for...but gave it to us after we had both opened our Craftsman cordlessdrill! (Box was same size/weight as the cordless drills LOL so we thought we were getting new tool sets).
 
We need to talk!

BallPyFan said:
Sean, BOB requires C batteries LOL (FYI BOB=Battery Operated Boyfriend...do I need to be more specific than that??????) My little sister got "Natural Breast Enhancement Supplements" as her gag gift LOL and that was just at mom's. Dad gave us each a case of RC so we'd quit fighting over who he bought the ones in the fridge for...but gave it to us after we had both opened our Craftsman cordlessdrill! (Box was same size/weight as the cordless drills LOL so we thought we were getting new tool sets).
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Wait a minute. Battery isn't something to joke about, little lady. People who operate their lives based on this philosophy are trouble with a capital “T”. “C” Battery? What is “C” Battery? Is that like " real serious battery?" Does Bob beat people's ass to a “C” level? All I know is “C’s” aren’t good. I got grounded for getting “C’s “ in high school. And let’s talk about BOB. WTF??? Who? Wha….? Aw, man, can’t say that I agree w/ this either. You said in your e-mails and in your forum postings that you were single. Now I find out about Bob? What’s the deal? Now you’re not single anymore? If your boyfriend’s sole purpose in life is operating by inflicting “battery” on others I can tell you this will only lead to other problems for you. Bob is trouble. Battery = Bad, and Battery Operated Boyfriends = Definitely Bad! Does he have another job? What “else” does “Bob” do? “Battery Operated Boyfriend”, yea right! Sounds like a real winner to me! There’s no future w/ this guy, I’m telling ya and it doesn’t sound like he’s going to go away either. I'd put some distance between yourself and this “Bob” character before anyone gets seriously “worked over”. It sounds like Bob is the kind of guy who knows how to work a gal over too. I just call the shots as I see em, babe, okay? Maybe I'm reading too much into this? Maybe? I’m a little jealous, yea, but so?. Yea, I get possessive at times, but so ? Just a little, ..not much…you said you were single! YOU’RE NOT!. and yea...I know we're not committed anyway because of the distance obstacle. But anyway, I’ll get over it. Well….you just remember in case of a violent confrontation w/ Bob call 9-1-1. Keep your pepper spray handy. You might need it. You hit Bob w/ that Pepper Spray one time before he moves in and that’s all you’re gonna need. Be careful. Call me if you need me, and I’ll arrive. (har-dee-har-har-har)You don’t need Bob! Screw that guy! Forget about him. Live now. :D

Sheesh, clarify next time, ok? Hope you're happy w/ BOB! Maybe we should take this to e-mail?

Disappointed,

Sean

PS Sorry you guys didn’t get the “Power Tools” :D that you desired. Maybe next time? .........maybe next time.
 
Katrina, email Sean, there is a WHOLE story about his post he will have to tell you, lol.....

OK, let's see now, back on topic.....I wonder why this is such a popular thread? Heee,heee..... :D
 
Oh gee, once again I am being told to take it to email hehehe... :dgrin: I am not the bad girl here! :rofl: And GEE I wonder WHY this thread is so popular???
 
Moi? I don't IMPLY jacks**t! LOL I usually just come right out and say it. But Moooommmm...I don't wanna take it to email :dgrin: I've been very proper and innocent and just some good clean fun here hehe. Dunno WHY you keep telling me to take things to email...honest!
 
I want you to say what you feel here. There was a little story that was perhaps more appropriate for private mail, having to do with a post of mine, is all.

I think you are a terrific addition to this forum.
 
I wonder why this thread died??

It might be the odd direction that it took. BOBs are not condusive to engaging in sex outside of your own little private world. All BOBs I had died and were replaced with non-BOBs, shower massage, and taking matters to hand. BOB can be addictive, although basically harmless.

I have noticed that I can't answer the question because I have changed so many times. Once I believed that you only had sex with someone you were in love with. Then I decided you need only really like them. For a while there it was best to dislike them as a person but have "chemistry"...if you don't like them you can treat them any way you want without guilt. Physically as well as emotionally. That was a fun time. Then I decided that it all wasn't worth the trouble at all and only bothered when the need was so strong that I couldn't bear it anymore. Then I decided to read Robert Heinleins books and REFUSE to explain. If you have read him, you understand. If you agree completely you're kinda sicko in my book, but for the most part it makes sense. If you reject his ideas you wouldn't be attracted to someone like me anyway....I have a personality.

Now it's whether or not you can stimulate me mentally first. If not, why bother. You have to have enough of a brain and have an imagination. No brain, no sex. After that you have to be able to work the body the right way. After the conversation if you really don't know what to do because you bluffed your way through it you are done. If you can turn on the brain and titillate the body who cares how long I've freakin known you!!! Let's go!!

It also helps if you aren't looking for a lifetime of passion. Honestly, lust is a temporary thing. I love my friends, but a f*** is a f*** and that is all. You can be buddies with a sex partner, but usually not lifelong friends.

I don't have sex with friends....get's too confusing.
 
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Well....I'll add my 2 cents, as they are a bit more unique.

Ummmm...a little background first. I am cursed with being overly intelligent at times, and pretty shy. So, I knew what I wanted in a partner and never settled for less. I never really dated - I was always the friend of guys, not the girlfriend.

I met my (now) husband online in a chatroom when I was 17. He met all my "requirements"...it was just too bad he was 1000 miles away. I never thought to have that in the list! LOL We fell in love quickly, and crammed 2 years of dating into 6 months. When we met in person (after the 6 mo. dating online), I had my FIRST kiss (non-platonic)...and a short week later we were screwing like rabbits.

That began 1 1/2 years of online dating with "visits" once a month. Eventually it drove me crazy, and I told him I was moving in and he better not have anything to say about it.

We lived together for a year before we got married in a courthouse with only the bailiff as the witness. Not romantic at all, but functional. I was 19, and he was 23. it's now 5 1/2 years later, and we still love each other very much.

So, not only have I not slept with another man, I've never even kissed another man! And really, it seems like a foreign concept. I can't possibly imagine what it would be like.

My husband, on the other hand, was quite the man-whore when he was young. It's fine by me.

I happen to think anyone who wait for their first time to be after they get married is being a little foolish.

I'm happy in my life only having been with my husband. I also think sex is fantastic, and if you wanna get some, go get some! There has been a few times I've advised friends to go get laid because they are driving me crazy!

So, if that made NO sense, I'm sorry, it's very late! Go get laid and call me in the morning!
 
I'm definitely the kind of person who has to know someone and have a little commitment first. I kinda play this off as a moral decision, and it probably is partially. But mostly I just really need to know someone well enough to be sure they won't laugh before they see me naked. There's nothing like extreme insecurity to really increase your moral strength.
 
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