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* SEX *

How long do you wait before having sex?

  • I'm going to wait until I'm married

    Votes: 20 8.6%

  • I want to take the time to be good friends first

    Votes: 50 21.6%

  • I don't have to spend forever getting acquainted, but I have to like them

    Votes: 89 38.4%

  • I'm going to get into any pair of jeans I can

    Votes: 19 8.2%

  • They give me quantity discounts on condoms at the pharmacy

    Votes: 22 9.5%

  • Don't talk with your mouth full

    Votes: 32 13.8%
  • Total voters
    232
bcfos said:
Just not what anyone would consider a "good catch". ;)
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Perhaps you are not now the perfect permanent catch, but for anyone just fishing for the afternoon you are ideal.
 
lucille said:
Perhaps you are not now the perfect permanent catch, but for anyone just fishing for the afternoon you are ideal.
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LOL!! I am a throw away!!! LOL!!!

I have been called much much worse in the past. ;) First time I have been called a "toss back" or "catch and release" though. :hehe:
 
bcfos said:
LOL!! I am a throw away!!! LOL!!!

I have been called much much worse in the past. ;) First time I have been called a "toss back" or "catch and release" though. :hehe:
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I think it is not so much the concept of toss back as it is the fact that you simply are not gonna stay caught; my point is that it will be an afternoon to enjoy and then the fish gets his freedom again.
 
lucille said:
I think it is not so much the concept of toss back as it is the fact that you simply are not gonna stay caught; my point is that it will be an afternoon to enjoy and then the fish gets his freedom again.
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Or maybe I am being coy and actually hoping to get caught. ;)
 
Just friends and nothing else, first: getting to know someone in a personal but non sexual way.
 
it means "lets be friends first up until the time comes that you want sex to which I will reply 'I cant have sex with you...youre my friend' "
 
Being friends first, meaning having a solid foundation to a relationship is always good to have before sex comes into play, however...........

If things go sour theres a good possibility that the friendship is off as well and that just sucks. Then again that could mean the friendship wasn't as strong in the first place if having sex messed it up.

Red
 
ladyserpent7 said:
i kinda dont get that "friends first" does that mean friends with benefits or friends and then "partners" or what? or am i just getting too technical. heh
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Actually any way you look at it becoming friends has its "benifits". So any level of friendship would have it's benifits, some may be of a non sexual nature some may be of a sexual nature. But in my experience why mess up a good friendship with the opposite sex by having sex. It has always ended in disaster with me so now I just avoid it like anthrax or herpes.
 
ladyserpent7 said:
"omg, did we just have sex..?"
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I do not know how much this scenario happens, usually from what I have seen there is more of an element of intent.
 
lucille said:
I do not know how much this scenario happens, usually from what I have seen there is more of an element of intent.
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I can see this more from a woman's standpoint then a guys. Guys, usually have varying degree's of motives but all of them generally lead to the bedroom. I have had several friends end up being fathers well before their time and are now paying the price of those poor decisions.

I had one partner and I am married to her still. The good Lord willing, she will also be my last. I just never understood the whole sowing your oats mentality. It means so much more to me than to be viewed simply as recreation.

Griz
 
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