THIS IS PURELY FOR DISCUSSIONS SAKE. I AM NOT ARGUING OR TRYING TO START TROUBLE. JUST TRYING TO UNDERSTAND OTHER PEOPLE'S THEORIES.
So 1 animal was 299 grams, the other in the 350 gram range. I apologize for the error again.
To address you Tosh, let me ask you this, if Stan sent me the 700 gram hets he advertised and said he had, would we be having this discussion and would this thread be here? The plain and simple answer is NO. I would have taken the 2 hets, sold them like I was doing, and that would be the end of it. But he didn't send me what I was supposed to receive. So once he keeps his obligation, then I can keep mine. And so on and so forth. So as much as people would like to tell me the transactions are not related, how can you truthfully believe that? Without one, there isn't the other. They are directly connected.
The difference is, I didn't try and pawn off the smaller females on my customer. I called and apologized and explained what happened. Sale nixed. Just like if Stan would have called and told me their true weights, I could have decided what to do about it then instead of being forced to deal with this situation. (Like anyone needs added stress in their life.) It's not that Stan is responsible for what I do with the animals after I received them, he is responsible for what I CAN'T do with them because they weren't what he promised. Which translates into he is directly responsible for my deal going bad.
It's not like I took the animals, boxed them up, shipped them to my buyer and said "Hey, call Stan Ruppel. I shipped you what he shipped me." I took responsibility because I couldn't fulfill my obligation. Now Stan has to take responsibility for not fulfilling his obligation to me. How do you determine what the value of that responsibility is?
Okay, here is what it boils down to, which was stated earlier. What is the mistake worth? To me, it is a $300 mistake. By Stan's justifications, we are even because in his opinion, the package is still worth $750. So the logical thing to do is refund my $750 plus shipping costs and I send all the snakes back. I think we will all agree on that.
Onto the next problem, which was also already stated, who sends who what first? Do I go and trust him and send him the snakes after he has already been unreliable and dishonest to me? Or does he have to show some faith in me now and send the money back and then I ship the animals?
Considering I did nothing wrong here, I believe it's his turn to send first. Better solution would be face to face, but Stan refuses that because of my tone. Next is to have a middle man, but who chooses who that is? He won't trust my guy and I certainly won't trust his. (Unless there is a mutual friend, which if there was he would have been discovered by now. We have both admitted to sharing this story with our confidants.)
Let's do this, and correct me (which I know someone will) if I'm wrong:
1. Stan said he was shipping me 700 gram het females.
2. Stan shipped SIGNIFICANTLY smaller het females.
3. I should be some what compensated or have my money refunded.
4. Stan will not, or at least after almost 3 weeks still has not agreed to refund all, or any of my money.
Conclusion: Stan is wrong. I deserve some sort of compensation. (Let's not even start adding in I've cared for these snakes for a few weeks now too. I could do that if I wanted to, but I'm not that big of an ass.)
If he won't refund my money in full, how do we determine what sum I should be refunded? So what is the correct formula? (This question arises because the people here do not accept the way I came up with $300. And saying "that's between us" isn't an option. If that was the case, no one should have dismissed my theory of how I came up with $300.)
Remember, I gave him the option to refund the entire purchase price. He never even acknowledged it. He simply will not refund my money. Stan won't even post anything. I just want this over; and not over where I just suck it up and let him get away with this. This is a month long saga. I'm tired of it.
ONCE AGAIN THIS IS PURELY DISCUSSION