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Bad Guy Tommy T Radix, not cool

she claims to have no interest in radix but in above screenshots i asked if she wanted all concinnus or radix as well and she said she would need to see pics of them. the litter is due very soon ill post a pic or 2 of them just to show everyone what i was also offering. they are multi het visual morphs.
 

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what is really making it look bad is she got online to private message me and demand snakes that are not part of the trade and failed to visit "HER" post about me to defend herself.

she didnt give me a day to ship to know the snakes would be received or nothing. she hasnt even seen the message yet to even know if i agreed to send anything or to see if shes expecting snakes. haha crazy...
 
this is the male she was referring to in the beginning of the conversation and the one she mentioned in the OP.
(not for sale and never was lol)
 

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Well, she's not the first OP to have a "I'm going to post a bad guy thread and (get even/get what I want/get some emotional need met/etc)" moment and have the thread totally and completely backfire when it's obvious to all that the seller did absolutely nothing wrong. Her total lack of response to this thread and the nasty response to you about only wanting blue snakes pretty much nails it. She is one to be avoided.

The garter breeding community can't be THAT big...I think everyone will know to steer clear of this OP.

BTW that is a gorgeous blue snake you've got there!
 
Well, she's not the first OP to have a "I'm going to post a bad guy thread and (get even/get what I want/get some emotional need met/etc)" moment and have the thread totally and completely backfire when it's obvious to all that the seller did absolutely nothing wrong. Her total lack of response to this thread and the nasty response to you about only wanting blue snakes pretty much nails it. She is one to be avoided.

The garter breeding community can't be THAT big...I think everyone will know to steer clear of this OP.

BTW that is a gorgeous blue snake you've got there!


thank you for the compliment. i already linked people to the thread and warned them of her. i also told thm not to chime in on my behalf. i dont need anymore attention than i already have lol 4 people bought garters after veiwing this thread. one person even went as far as trying to get a deal because if this haha

this is what he said......

Hey Tom, I'd like the red spotteds, but with all the hulla-baloo about you being uncool... i just don't know...
How can i be sure you will be cool?
hmmm.
what's the total to 33813 for the 2 ?
also, what other thamnophis you have available?
 
What's "Not Cool" is the creation of this thread and the OP! I'm sorry you've had to deal with this Tom!

thanks. its not a big deal. although i dont post on here and noone ever leaves feedback on here for me i did her it is where everyone comes to look into a sellers history. the past 3 years ive been on fb only so thats where all my reveiws are atm.
 
If I were you I'd just send her back that sausage fest of males she sent. I don't think she's going to be happy unless she's getting a much better trade offer. Either way good luck trying to work something fair out with her.
 
finally getting somewhere with her lol
 

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What a frustrating situation all around. Definitely a toxic buyer. If I were you, I'd start a BOI thread on her that links this one. She definitely deserves a "seller beware" thread of her own. Good on you for being so patient.
 
i need at least 2 of these males to raise and help my adult male with all my females haha. that's the only reason i even went through with the trade. i have a few juvenile females and adult females but only one male. i didn't expect her to wanna give me 10 of them lol 6 is fine and all males is not optimal but is better than all females so i wasn't mad one bit.

by telling her they were "rare" may have been a stretch and might be the reason i'm in the prediciment i'm in now lol i have a pretty nice group of them and just found out 2 other people have small breeding groups. don belnap has 2 gravid females. so he could end up with 25-50 babies for sale by the end of next month lol looking back at it, i don't know why i would say that and increase her end of the trade when i have so many of them haha
 
What a frustrating situation all around. Definitely a toxic buyer. If I were you, I'd start a BOI thread on her that links this one. She definitely deserves a "seller beware" thread of her own. Good on you for being so patient.

i don't ever post bad reveiws on anyone.although i may have to start lol i got burned last year for a few hundred dollars and just left it alone. ive dealt with a few buyers like this woman but was always able to come to an agreement. one buyer bought a baby 2 years ago and i never mentioned sex in the add and when he got it he claimed it was male and he wanted female. long story short i ended up sending him 2 more so he would stop crying lol
 
i don't ever post bad reveiws on anyone.although i may have to start lol i got burned last year for a few hundred dollars and just left it alone. ive dealt with a few buyers like this woman but was always able to come to an agreement. one buyer bought a baby 2 years ago and i never mentioned sex in the add and when he got it he claimed it was male and he wanted female. long story short i ended up sending him 2 more so he would stop crying lol

You are a more forgiving person than I am. Not that I would have posted a "Bad Guy" thread, but because you are still trying to make her happy.
Something along the lines of..."You can't make all the people happy, all of the time" seems to be approiate in this situation.
Best Wishes,
~Beau
 
i dont mind giving her more than the value of them. i only care about their worth. i even told her in the messages when she asked for a fair trade. i showed her their market price then told her they are "worth" more to me than what they are listed as.
 
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