Sorry about making a serious relief to the comic relief here. But I read this post earlier, but didn't have time to respond to it. I am sorry, but I feel pretty strongly that it DOES need responding to. There may be others, so please bear with me..
ms_terese said:
There are times when I know I should keep my mouth shut (or my fingers from typing), but I simply can't. This is one of those times.
Who am I to disagree with that!
ms_terese said:
First of all, I can't buy the Rozann/Wes conspiracy theory. It doesn't add up based on what I know of both of them. If that makes me "unable to read what this thread is actually portraying", then so be it. I can't believe that Wes Pollack would manipulate anyone to donate $1,000 for his return here. I don't believe that Rozann was manipulated by Wes or anyone else. I also don't see that she "decided to blatantly lie throughout this thread".
Oh really? You mean like even starting off the thread with a lie wasn't really a lie? Wes is incapable of being behind something like this? Wes would never be vindictive or antagonistic (cough -Neil, Anaconda Al, Dennis1, etc., etc., etc., etc.,etc.,etc.,etc.,etc.,etc.,etc..........)? Never would THINK about trying to get in the last word? Gee, I guess you know Wes in a different way then I have seen him here. He has NEVER been one to give up a feud. Ever. And you don't believe he harbors some resentment about getting booted off of here? As for the donation thingy, no I do not believe the $1,000 donation was his idea at all, but I FIRMLY believe Rozann starting this thread had his hand behind it. And I also believe a minor campaign got started to try to get Wes let back on here solely to respond to this thread, which I denied.
Read her statement again, please:
Stardust said:
WES?????? I haven't seen him on here and I checked the members list and he is not on there. How can one be taken off a member list with all of his threads?
I checked suspended, but all his fines have been paid, somewhere along the lines I missed something huge!!!!!!
Let discuss this sound off style.
Do you REALLY believe that Rozann didn't know what had happened? Do you really believe that she couldn't have just contacted Wes directly, or perhaps any one of a number of other people she knows who frequent this site? No?? That wouldn't have worked? Instead she had to come on to this site and post a thread HERE to get that question answered? Well if it were really a question, why the statement about discussing it "sound off style"? What was the purpose of that? Simply to get an answer to her "question" about what it is that she missed? Wasn't this whole thread started under a lie that she says she doesn't know what happened to Wes here? Wasn't the suggestion about "sound off style" a suggestion for something more then just an answer to her question? Now why would she have assumed that such a thing was going to be forthcoming, much less requested that way?
Sorry, but I am astonished, and I mean REALLY ASTONISHED, that anyone would swallow that baited hook.
ms_terese said:
I think that Rozann gave a plausible explanation for the hosting situation. Maybe it's because I am familiar with Roz's absence from the forums for the last several months that I just don't find it unreasonable that she started the thread to get some answers about Wes.
Sorry, I must have missed that "plausible explanation" even though I have looked several times. There are some jumble thoughts offered that have no coherency at all, much less any credibility. Even if the possibility does exist that Wes could not contact Rozann, I think it is damned far fetched to think that Rozann could not have contacted HIM, and instead just out of the blue decided to come onto this site, try to seek out Wes's name in the list of members and then not finding him, post this thread about it. All spontaneously? Just a shot in the dark her coming here to seek out Wes's name and then instead of trying to contact ANYONE else here, even Wes himself about it, decides instead to post this thread with the admonition to discuss it "sound off style". Yep, sure all sounds like an innocent coincidence to me. How about you?
ms_terese said:
I know, I know, I know...I'm welcome to leave if I don't like the way it's run here, everybody has a choice, etc. etc. It's quite aggravating to consistently read that, because it insinuates that members here aren't aware of their ability to leave. They are. Sometimes they simply want to express their opinion because they believe it to be intelligent or worth consideration.
If you think you are tired of hearing it, just think how tired I am of having to say it to people who can't seem to grasp that concept. Let me say it one more time to try to get it to sink in:
I have to make some changes to this site now and again that I believe are necessary. Some people may disagree with them, and perhaps strongly enough that they will basically create an ultimatum. Change it back or they will leave. That is your choice to make, but when you feel strongly enough about it that way, then simply cease with the badgering me about it and just leave. I EXPECT to have some people leave whenever I make a change. because in most cases I am making the changes BECAUSE of someone's (or multiple persons) actions or activities here. It could very well be that the changes I made are done SPECIFICALLY to get them to leave.
How many times do you think I have heard the same arguments over and over again, and from the same people? At some point, the "expressing their opinion" does tend to cross the line to become badgering and harassment. Maybe even "trolling" if you get right down to it. So tell me, why is it perfectly OK for people to continually badger me about these decisions I have made yet NOT okay for me to answer them in the same way I previously answered them? I'm a little confused about the division of "rights" here that we are talking about.