With this statement, this bad guy thread is completely warranted.
You are willing to put the stress if shipping on a baby beardie, all to save your "business reputation?"
You are putting the value of some cash over the health and well-being of an animal that you produced. I can't believe you would allow yourself to ship an animal to someone who has clearly stated they do not want it.
What are you going to do in two weeks and 2 days when you ship josh his dragon, he ships it back next day and then you refund him, pat yourself on the back and go "good job, Fire and Ice dragons, we stuck to our guns!" Because that attitude will lose you customers and lose you a ton of respect.
You are almost completely unwilling to work with your customer. Based on the quoted portions of the original terms from your website, I can't believe you are taking this route. You are doing what bad guys do, you are hiding behind your TOS instead of working with a CUSTOMER. You and josh might be having a disagreement and you can't "trust" him anymore, but you still have his money and his dragon (which has been pointed out in this thread already).
You go on and on about treating customers fairly.. This isn't a one size fits all business. We are dealing with LIVE animals here. MOST business have their terms of service as a guideline. You have yours rule your entire outfit with an iron fist. You cannot make a term or rule for every possible occurrence that may happen in a business like this. Do yourself and your business a favor, and apply your "rules" in a way that will allow everyone to benefit from this--you, josh and MOST IMPORTANTLY the baby dragon.
Your guarantee didn't clearly state anything. Did you ever make josh aware that his purchase was a "special order"? Or are customers supposed to know that what odd miss used terms mean? Special order means ordering something special, like, perhaps if he requested you pair two specific dragons or something. But putting down a payment for an animal you don't even know will be produced counts as "special order"? I can see the need for a non refundable deposit that would be clearly stated. But not even refunding part of his purchase price?
Change the TOS on your website, refund Josh and move on. That would be the only outcome that will save any shred of your reputation.
I don't comment on BOI posts often. I try to avoid commenting on BOI posts and just gather information. But this situation really ruined my mood. I will absolutely never be doing business with you, and if anyone I know asks about your business I will do my best to steer them away and only direct them to to this thread.