Darin Chappell
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I remember when I was a child, listening from time to time to my parents, aunts and uncles, and grandparents talk about family business. Many of the things they were discussing were beyond my understanding for several reasons at the time, but much of it was due to the fact that there was a history in the family that occurred long before I was born. Because of this, the CONTEXT of their discussions simply alluded me, and I was incapable of fully comprehending why everyone held the positions they did.
I believe that this is the same phenomenon that some of you newer folks are experiencing here on the BOI. I do not at all mean to imply that you are children in ANY way! I merely mean that, being new to the BOI family, there is a subtle context that you may not yet have grasped, because so much family history has transpired before you joined us here.
For example, there is no "inner circle" here. I know it seems that way because so many of us post so often, and we all pretty well come down on the same side of an issue. However, that is more because many of us have the same professional values, and we simply detest those practices which leave others who are less educated about internet business wondering what happened to their snakes and/or money. Several of us have been associated with this site for quite a while and have seen the scam artists come and go regularly. I can't tell you how many people have been shown to be lying, cheating, scammers (and I mean with bona fide, solid PROOF) by the efforts of the people here at the BOI. Are we a clique? If by that you mean a group of people with common interests that want nothing more or less than a safe environment in which to do business as buyers and sellers on the internet in the reptile industry, then yes, I suppose we are. However, if you mean that we are a group of people who get together and decide who we will lynch next week, or that we compare notes before we determine how we'll come down on an issue, I assure you NOTHING is further from the truth.
In fact, let me just say (without airing any old family laundry) that there have been SEVERAL times when some of us old-timers have gone after each other tooth and nail. Why? Because no one, NO ONE is cut any slack here on the BOI. If Rich Zuchowski ripped someone off, and he was unwilling to do right by the person in question, I promise you that this board would go down in flames calling Rich out for his actions. No one is safe from the probing eyes of this forum when they determine to lie, cheat, or steal, and I am thankful for that fact.
So, let me say "Welcome to the family!" I am glad you are here, and I am sure everyone else is also. If you have questions, ask them. If you think someone is being unfairly judged, say something about it. If you want to see proof before believing anyone, that's what this forum is for, so demand it! No one will think any less of you, and no one will jump all over you for asking (if they do, some of us old-timers will set them straight). Just please try to understand that there may very well be some previous information in the family history of which you might not be aware. We'll tell you about it if you ask us, but we may not realize who has, and has not been around long enough to recall when "so and so" said "such and such."
Thanks for reading my uncharacteristically long post!
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I believe that this is the same phenomenon that some of you newer folks are experiencing here on the BOI. I do not at all mean to imply that you are children in ANY way! I merely mean that, being new to the BOI family, there is a subtle context that you may not yet have grasped, because so much family history has transpired before you joined us here.
For example, there is no "inner circle" here. I know it seems that way because so many of us post so often, and we all pretty well come down on the same side of an issue. However, that is more because many of us have the same professional values, and we simply detest those practices which leave others who are less educated about internet business wondering what happened to their snakes and/or money. Several of us have been associated with this site for quite a while and have seen the scam artists come and go regularly. I can't tell you how many people have been shown to be lying, cheating, scammers (and I mean with bona fide, solid PROOF) by the efforts of the people here at the BOI. Are we a clique? If by that you mean a group of people with common interests that want nothing more or less than a safe environment in which to do business as buyers and sellers on the internet in the reptile industry, then yes, I suppose we are. However, if you mean that we are a group of people who get together and decide who we will lynch next week, or that we compare notes before we determine how we'll come down on an issue, I assure you NOTHING is further from the truth.
In fact, let me just say (without airing any old family laundry) that there have been SEVERAL times when some of us old-timers have gone after each other tooth and nail. Why? Because no one, NO ONE is cut any slack here on the BOI. If Rich Zuchowski ripped someone off, and he was unwilling to do right by the person in question, I promise you that this board would go down in flames calling Rich out for his actions. No one is safe from the probing eyes of this forum when they determine to lie, cheat, or steal, and I am thankful for that fact.
So, let me say "Welcome to the family!" I am glad you are here, and I am sure everyone else is also. If you have questions, ask them. If you think someone is being unfairly judged, say something about it. If you want to see proof before believing anyone, that's what this forum is for, so demand it! No one will think any less of you, and no one will jump all over you for asking (if they do, some of us old-timers will set them straight). Just please try to understand that there may very well be some previous information in the family history of which you might not be aware. We'll tell you about it if you ask us, but we may not realize who has, and has not been around long enough to recall when "so and so" said "such and such."
Thanks for reading my uncharacteristically long post!
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