nicolai
Philosophical Statesman
Lucille..
I understand what you are saying but you have to look at one thing. Pete came on here and admitted to everything that he did and also apologized for his wrong doing and where has that gotten him. There are still people on here that haven't and will never accept his apology and will keep hounding him forever.
You say that Adam has ruined his reputation in the reptile world forever... I think there are a few people on here that are going to make sure Petes reputation in the reptile world is ruined forever...
So I ask you..What is the benefit of coming onto this forum and admitting any wrong doing or apologizing for a wrong doing if it will continue to haunt you forever.
If We and I use the term We loosely, as a herp society fail to forgive those that are sincere in their apologies than what good are we. Should we be up on a pedestal above everybody else and be the judge and jury, and if we feel it justified sentence the person to " life outside the reptile trade" which forums like this have the power to do by ruining people reputations and future sales.
But low and behold if any of the "BIG" dealers or breeders screws up all we hear is "he will make it right" AND WHEN THEY DO ITS FORGOTTEN AND PEOPLE SAY "YOU SEE..... DON'T BLAME HIM, HE MADE IT RIGHT IN THE END SO HE'S A GOOD GUY", BUT TRY THAT WITH SOMEONE JUST STARTING OUT IN THE BUSINESS AND SEE WHAT THEY GET.(sorry for the caps).
This is only my opinion but if you think about it I think you'll see where I am coming from.What Adam did and his Racist views are almost unforgivable but what Pete did was make a mistake and is willing to suffer the consequences and after he has paid the piper I guarantee there will still be people hounding him on here over this issue.
I will probably take a killing on my reputation points again for speaking my mind and telling the truth, but hey..my heart feels like it has a burden lifted off it now that I said what needed to be said.
I understand what you are saying but you have to look at one thing. Pete came on here and admitted to everything that he did and also apologized for his wrong doing and where has that gotten him. There are still people on here that haven't and will never accept his apology and will keep hounding him forever.
You say that Adam has ruined his reputation in the reptile world forever... I think there are a few people on here that are going to make sure Petes reputation in the reptile world is ruined forever...
So I ask you..What is the benefit of coming onto this forum and admitting any wrong doing or apologizing for a wrong doing if it will continue to haunt you forever.
If We and I use the term We loosely, as a herp society fail to forgive those that are sincere in their apologies than what good are we. Should we be up on a pedestal above everybody else and be the judge and jury, and if we feel it justified sentence the person to " life outside the reptile trade" which forums like this have the power to do by ruining people reputations and future sales.
But low and behold if any of the "BIG" dealers or breeders screws up all we hear is "he will make it right" AND WHEN THEY DO ITS FORGOTTEN AND PEOPLE SAY "YOU SEE..... DON'T BLAME HIM, HE MADE IT RIGHT IN THE END SO HE'S A GOOD GUY", BUT TRY THAT WITH SOMEONE JUST STARTING OUT IN THE BUSINESS AND SEE WHAT THEY GET.(sorry for the caps).
This is only my opinion but if you think about it I think you'll see where I am coming from.What Adam did and his Racist views are almost unforgivable but what Pete did was make a mistake and is willing to suffer the consequences and after he has paid the piper I guarantee there will still be people hounding him on here over this issue.
I will probably take a killing on my reputation points again for speaking my mind and telling the truth, but hey..my heart feels like it has a burden lifted off it now that I said what needed to be said.