SirenSanJose
aka: dheideman
In case I didn't make myself clear I was at fault for the shipping and I have ordered on everyday of the week from them and shipping has always been 2 days... ALWAYS. Yes again my fault. I feel the company should at least WANT to help in some small way or at least return a phone call... Maybe not replace the whole order but SOMETHING, ANYTHING.
Yes, they should return your communications, which it sounds like they finally did in the email.
As for the rest: um, WHY? Why should they reward you for your screw-up and take a loss based on your error?
If someone comes into my pet store, and I sell them a crested gecko, let them know the species requirements (CGD, no heat, vertical space, etc), and make it clear upon purchase that my live animal guarantee does not cover "user errors" (cat attacks, improper setup, kid being too rough, etc)...
...and then they come in 6 days later saying "my crestie died, I put it in a 20 long with a 100w heat coil on each side, and I fed it mealworms but it never ate them, and IT DIED, FIX IT", I am absolutely not going to refund that animal. I will express sympathy for their loss, offer (again) my pointers for appropriate crestie care, but that's it.
Or an even simpler one: someone buys a crested from me at a trade show, in high summer, in California, so it's 95 or more out. Then they put the deli cup in their closed car, in direct sun, and go back in the expo to browse for 2 hours. They come back out and the poor thing's cooked. Then they come back to my table and want a refund because they "JUST bought it 2 hours ago, what kind of lousy business doesn't have a warranty?"
In either case, I ask again -- they did everything wrong; I did everything right in this scenerio. Why should I do "something" for them? I can't afford to take the loss on something that was in absolutely way my fault, especially given that if I do it for one customer, I'll have to do it for everyone that ever cooks a crestie in a deli cup or I'll get "but you did it for THEM!" complaints.
Now, if it's an understanding customer going "hey, I screwed up, I feel really bad, I know this is my fault, I wasn't thinking about how hot it got outside" I MIGHT do something like give them a 10% discount on another crestie if they want it. I'm under no obligation to, but I might.
And if this cricket vendor *chooses* to do something like pop an extra thousand crickets into your next shipment, that speaks volumes about THEIR customer service and business ethics and how they're choosing to take care of a customer they owe nothing to. But it won't be a negative reflection on them in any way if they don't. They replied to your email saying "sorry, you voided your own warranty, we can't eat that loss" and a reply was the only thing they owed you.