Hi. Oh boy, where to start? I guess we should start with the facts. I sent this gentleman a sexed pair of albino Rosy Boas. I sexed them myself. I packed them myself. I cupped them together. He received them in perfect condition. And then he asked me which was which. Oops. I had no clue he would not be able to sex them. If he'd asked, I would have shipped them in separate containers. I was just trying to save him some money on shipping by using the smallest box possible and still ensure the safe transport of the snakes. He asked me which one was which. I told him I honestly could not remember. He has not posted but one or two of the about 15 emails we have had going back and forth. I told him in one email, I could have lied to you and taken a guess, but that if I was wrong it would have just wasted a lot of his time raising up the wrong snakes, as he said he needed the male for other breeding projects besides breeding the pair. I suggested that he have a friend help him out. I'm on Kim's computer at home here now, and don't have access to the emails, but I can have them all in the morning. I normally don't save any emails, but after the first couple I received from him, I thought "oh boy, I better save these". I will state this though, and I don't do it lightly. He is a lier. Plain and simple. I have been nothing but polite and understanding to his situation, which my emails (that I don't have now) will show. I made many suggestions to him on how to resolve this in his favor. But mostly, here on the BOI, is the first time that mites have ever been mentioned. I have every email but the very first ones saved, and he has never mentioned mites to me. He is a lier. He says we talked about mites, and basically I told him tough luck. This is a lie. I challenge him to prove otherwise. Also, he says that he took the snakes to the vet. Had them probed I assume. And then says the vet told him how to look for mites, and insinuated that he went home and discovered them. Which was it? Did he find the mites, or did his expensive vet? My last email to him was late Saturday afternoon. I personal doubt that he took it to a vet at all on Saturday. I could be wrong, but that's what I suspect. In one of my last emails to him, I asked if he had a mental problem. I was getting a bit flustered by then, and saw that I was beating my head against a wall. It was not a nice thing to ask, but hey, I was getting a little flustered by then. I can supply that email to. All in all, I think I acted in a very profesional manner to him, as I try to do with all potential, current, and past customer.
Mites: there is no excuse. If I sent him snakes with mites, that is all on me. If he had said that they had mites to me, I would have made it right. Do the snakes I sent him have mites? I don't know. I did not notice any when I packed them. Could I have missed them? Sure, it's possible. If he'd told me this, I would have had him send them back if that's what he wanted to do, and I would have verified it. If they did, I would have refunded all his money, shipping and all. That's the way I operate. Hell, even if he just told me that over the phone or in an email, I would have more then likely offered to credit some of his money back for the hassle of getting rid of them. I have never lied to a customer, and I'm not about to start now. Mistakes, I make plenty. Out and out fraud, never. Just for the record, I will not take the snakes back in any way, shape or form now. Unless they are mis-sexed. I gave him the option days ago, and that door is now closed. He told me in one of his emails that he was going to tell everyone in every forum what an horrible man I am, unless I paid the $40 to have the snakes sexed. I told him that was blackmail, and no, I would not pay. I even told him to do what you feel you have to do. In one of his first emails (I doubt I have it saved) he asked me to discount the snakes. I said I can't. He then asked me to pay the shipping. I told him I can't pay his shipping for him. Later, he asked me to pay the vet bill. I said no. He asked me to refund him in full including shipping if he sent them back. I said no. I would only refund the money on he snakes. If this makes me a bad guy, so be it.
Anyway, that's all I have. I have all the emails, if anyone is interested. Or he can post them, since I assume he also saved them all. I doubt he will post them all though, since he's already lied on this thread, and I would not put it past him to cloud the issue more. To you sir, show me one email, to or from me that has the word mites in it. Just one. And, after you ordered and paid for the snakes, we spoke only one time on the phone. You all will have to trust me when I say that mites were never mentioned then either. As I told Kim and Vegas Billy as this was all going down, I should have just lied and dealt with the fall out a few years down the road. But that would have sucked. I would not want someone to do that to me. But then again, I verify the sexes of all the snakes I receive.
Ken
Oh, and for people on a budget. If you go to Popeyes Chicken on Tuesday, you can get two pieces of chicken for buck. Having very little time to cook or be cooked for, I buy 20 pieces every Tuesday. That comes to $10.70 with tax. It lasts me many days. In fact I still have a few pieces left in the fridge now. Sure, it gets tiring, but I can eat 3 meals a day for at least 5 days and it only costs me 10 bucks. $40 for food every week seems a bit extravagant if you ask me. That's what I call living large.