Bill has no need to come and defend himself................It seems to be getting done for Him already. At least that's how it is appearing to Me.
But it seems like, and let me get this straight, that If I made an agreement with someone, and set a price, and agreed to it, and worked out the details of payment, and when the animal would be shipped, (phone call or email ended here. Deal done.)..................................that it is good practice, or ethical of Me to sell that same animal to Joe Blow cus he has cash in hand? Knowing that money has been sent? GIVE ME A BREAK!
Be it PayPal, CC, or money order, once it's sent, it's out of the senders hands, and should warrant some amount of time for the transaction to clear, arrive, whatever. What the guy did was just plain bad practice, and this thread, IMO, is rightfully placed in the BOI.
Why this guy wont respond, I don't get at all. Now if a week, or more had gone by, and emails or phone calls made to inquire, "hey, where's My money?" then I could see selling the animal to another buyer. That doesn't appear to be the case here. I do agree about the time line being critical, and I am interested in this also, but I still think this is the right place for this thread.
And i agree with Michael on the merge if possible. This back and forth is like a flashback to the 70's. Hed spinning trying to keep up.
Rick