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Bad Guy Crestieman - Robert Shays Reptiles

I have NOT been harassing you. There is NO proof for you to show. It was YOUR decision to be up this late. And it was YOUR decision to blatantly IGNORE me PMs to you.
 
I sent you THREE. Show proof of these multitude of messages. That's right...you don't HAVE any proof because they DON'T exist.
 
ok katie whatever you say im sorry that i said female you were right i am wrong have a good life honestly move on it was a mistake i thought female and so did the herp i talked to sorry have a good one is kin will be good
 
While I appreciate the apology, I do still feel like I am entitled to a partial refund, especially after the insults and false claims.
 
Guess not then...

To anyone reading, I highly suggest avoiding this guy. He obviously refuses to deal with the problems at hand. This may have been just a small problem, and a small amount of money, but who knows if he'll do it again and refuse refund for a larger amount after misrepresenting his animals. I wish we could have worked this out in a civil manner through our PMs, but his refusal to even acknowledge them is what brought me here.
 
I don't even know where to start with this guy. I'm sorry you had to deal with him. Let's count the number of things he's said/done that are straight out of the scammers handbook.

#1 Say you have proof that the OP isn't telling the truth but never provide it:
i can just as quickly provide screen shots about you saying that you did not have room and in our convo i had stated it was a probable female you are making this into something that it isnt what are you trying to do with this it is over

Still waiting for those screen shots. You have plenty of time to continue posting nonsense on this thread and accusing the OP of harassing you, so you obviously have enough time to post your proof. But I think we all know it doesn't exist.

#2 Accuse the OP of something unrelated to the transaction, harassment/racism/sexism or whatever nonsense you can think of:
i am tired of this lady harassing me give her an infraction for her harassment!!!!!!! honestly she messaged me on facebook so much i had to block her that is why she thinks i deleted mine for real stop katie im done with you!!

Where's your proof that she's harassing you? Oh that probably doesn't exist either.

#3 Say you will not post anymore on this thread and then keep on posting:
this is the last post i will do.....i am not talking or doing buisness with you any longer and you are not going to go on and talk or send anything to me im sorry about the trouble you made out with a great deal any how be happy i dont file harrasment suit thank you that is all i will not post again katie have a good life good bye

18 minutes later
no what happened here is that im fed up with her harrassing me and as for selling at mom and pop store i just sold 4 off my facebook auction site and web site for 150 + and i have not had a problem until this on this site and its due to her harrassing me and will not leave me alone and no i dont wanna go through it all and copy and paste it all i have been up all night with your complaining it is now 5:36 am and i am waiting for a crestie to ring at the door bell anytime seeing as i will wait for it to come so that i make sure that it is healthy and as for shows i will still show at them

#4 Try and gain sympathy so you don't have to take responsibility for your actions:
no i am staying up taking care of my sick aunt and another thing is now im waiting for my crestie to get here and i ignored them cause i got sooooooo many!!

I'm impressed with how you presented all the evidence and managed to stay calm even with having to deal with this guy. Hopefully you never have to deal with this kind of stuff again and hopefully he won't be able to pull this kind of stuff again.
 
Katie, sorry to see that you had to deal with all of this nonsense from this person (can't say what I REALLY think of him without receiving an infraction)!! I know that I will NEVER send him a dime for any animals, and I feel pretty good that ALL of the people that see this will agree.

Mr Shays, I find it really hard to believe that you've been doing this very long, but even total scammers can get away with stuff for awhile. Looks like you've dug your herp career's grave here. Way to go!!:thumbsup: :shootfoot
 
Sounds like Robert is a 13 year old kid who is used to getting bullied at school and is trying to be the bully now from behind the keyboard.

Robert, you have posted no proof, you have gone off the deep end on just about every post you have made here, you have refused to make your customer happy. I will not purchase from you and I guarantee anyone that looks your name up on Fauna will not do business with you either. In this business your name is everything. No reputation is better than a bad one.

You could have refunded her a small amount of money, made her a bit happier and your name would not have been brought out into the open. Now that it is, combined with your incredibly childish behavior, you have lost business from anyone with common sense enough to look you up on the BOI:shootfoot
 
I'm sorry you had such a horrible transaction with this guy Katie.

At 20 grams, I am sure those pores were pretty evident before they even left his house. He pretty much just hit his own self destruct button on this BOI. I'm sure it won't be long before NO ONE buys from him :shrug01:

Great job documenting and handling this unfair situation so calmly and maturely :)
 
Sounds like Robert is a 13 year old kid who is used to getting bullied at school and is trying to be the bully now from behind the keyboard.

LOL-Katie approached me on Pangea via PM, and asked me to look at the thread, and when I had seen what he was saying, I said the same thing!

Robert, you have posted no proof, you have gone off the deep end on just about every post you have made here, you have refused to make your customer happy. I will not purchase from you and I guarantee anyone that looks your name up on Fauna will not do business with you either. In this business your name is everything. No reputation is better than a bad one.

Just keep burning all those bridges!

You could have refunded her a small amount of money, made her a bit happier and your name would not have been brought out into the open. Now that it is, combined with your incredibly childish behavior, you have lost business from anyone with common sense enough to look you up on the BOI:shootfoot

Customer service can make ANYTHING better!

You obviously don't understand this.

A DOA can be replaced or refunded if it's due to bad shipping or bad weather.

Wrong gender can be remedied by a partial refund.

Wrong animal shipped can be remedied by shipping the right animal and accepting the wrong animal back at your shipping cost.

Poor customer service is what's sinking your business as you read this.

You need to improve your people skills a LOT if you plan to continue selling ANYTHING, but I believe your time selling herps is just about OVER.

This reputation-damning thread is here because of YOUR MISTAKE.

Katie's only mistake was purchasing the gecko from an obvious NOVICE and using the wrong type of transaction through PayPal. I'm sure that you told her which transaction type to pick, so that's on YOU.

Had she used the proper transaction, she would have been able to get a full refund because she received something that she didn't buy.
 
Katie's only mistake was purchasing the gecko from an obvious NOVICE and using the wrong type of transaction through PayPal. I'm sure that you told her which transaction type to pick, so that's on YOU.

Yah, from Katie's post:
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Which is a falsehood, it's the recipient who loses out on "fees" for using Paypal's services. Katie would have, for example, sent $100, and the recipient would only receive $95 or whatever.

If you are selling things, you don't ask people to send money as a gift. You factor in Paypal fees when deciding on your total selling price or take it as a loss as part of doing business online. Asking too many people to send funds as a gift is a good way to get your Paypal account investigated or shut down, so even if you don't care about your buyers' protection (which speaks volumes in itself), you should at least be smart enough to cover your own backside.

I also agree with what ento890 said - pores are generally visible without a loupe at 20 grams. With a loupe they should have been very evident.
 
Yah, from Katie's post:
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Which is a falsehood, it's the recipient who loses out on "fees" for using Paypal's services. Katie would have, for example, sent $100, and the recipient would only receive $95 or whatever.

If you are selling things, you don't ask people to send money as a gift. You factor in Paypal fees when deciding on your total selling price or take it as a loss as part of doing business online. Asking too many people to send funds as a gift is a good way to get your Paypal account investigated or shut down, so even if you don't care about your buyers' protection (which speaks volumes in itself), you should at least be smart enough to cover your own backside.


That's what I meant-I just worded it wrong.

He didn't want to be out the PayPal fee.

By sending the money as a gift or as personal, Katie is no longer protected by PayPal.

And he could care less. He got his money.


I also agree with what ento890 said - pores are generally visible without a loupe at 20 grams. With a loupe they should have been very evident.

Yep!! And as I said...there should have been obvious "droppage", even if the whole hemipenal "bulge" was not evident.

That doesn't occur overnight.
 
He didn't want to be out the PayPal fee.
By sending the money as a gift or as personal, Katie is no longer protected by PayPal. And he could care less. He got his money.

Isn't it unethical to make the buyer pay the card processing fees when buying reptiles? On the same vein I think it is against paypal's terms to pay for goods received under the gift option.

Katie, your composure is outstanding. Kudos.

Robert, how experienced is your herpetologist friend with cresteds specifically? I have been breeding them for the past five years and the pores and a slight bulge would definitely have been evident at the time of sale. I don't necessarily doubt his credibility, but his gender determinations don't mean hold much clout if he isn't experienced with cresties.

The real issue is that your ads DID NOT say probable female, they said female, and your buyer received a male gecko. You seem to have ignored the messages from Katie contacting you about the error, and then come back and say she is harassing you and is crazed? If you had just responded in the first place she would not have had to send multiple messages. It doesn't sound like you plan on making the situation right and it's going to send a very bad message to the rest of the community. I hope your Facebook auctions are your bread and butter.
 
Thanks so much everyone! Believe me...staying calm during all of his little insults and false claims was incredibly difficult. Next time I'll be sure to watch for all the little red flags. I was hoping to receive a partial refund, but highly doubt that will happen, so I'll just move on from this transaction with a lot more experience with watching for potentially bad transactions.
 
Wow now that was a hell of a read. At first I was going both ways, but in the end I would never buy from this guy. To say the least. Good Luck with your further purchases!
 
His attitude makes me want to puke. I mean really? He could have handled this situation A LOT better than he did but instead he want's to cry like a baby and throw out ridiculous accusations. I can tell he isn't going to last very long!

Also, if what he claims is true about the market being saturated with females and Katie making off with a "good deal" by getting a male, wouldn't he just want to refund the money and get the male sent back to him and send her a female so he can resell the male for a higher price? Oh wait, that's right; he's a scammer and knew exactly what he was doing the whole time. I guess I was just thinking like a normal human being that doesn't have the IQ of a brick. My bad.
 
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