Ken,
My comments were not aimed as much at you as they were to those few people who did, and possibly those who thought about, responding with negative comments about Dan. How long is long enough is up to the individual, and the facts regarding the matter. You are the only one with all the facts, at least the ones from your side, so I really don't have a problem with you posting after 4 days. What bothers me more is the people who chime in instantly and say things like, Thanks for the heads up I'll never deal with that crook, or crooks like that need to be outed, or I'm sick of people ripping off others in this industry etc. etc. only to have the story turn around and everything work out and these people either come back to appologize (the decent ones) or simply keep lurking in the shadows hoping no one will remember.
I am not saying that any one who did respond in this case is like that, I just wanted to caution people to think twice about getting involved with inflammatory remarks after such a short time. Without the benefit of hearing both sides. I'm sure we have all seen cases where john doe posts a bad guy thread about john smith, john smith comes on and responds, and in the end john doe winds up looking like the bad guy. I for one wouldn't want to be reminded that I originally stuck up for john doe.
4 days may not be too long if you are the one who feels ripped off, but unless there is more evidence then what you provided, I do think 4 days is a little too soon for others to turn on the guy. Of course, things may turn out as you have feared (hopefully not) and everyone will say "see we were right we knew he was a crook" but it will be another case where circumstances bailed them out of a potential jam.
Personally I am pretty trusting and patient, often to my detriment. I have waited almost 6 weeks on a deal that went south and I do believe it is finally worked out. Thats just me, but if I had made a bad guy post here, with the details of my case, I know that there would have been a dozen people condeming the other guy. Of course, I will probably never know if the reasons he gave me for the delay were valid, or just excuses, or if he only responded as a result of my threats to go public with the info, but it doesn't really matter. The fact that I do not know makes it impossible for me to post a bad guy thread about him.
Steve Schindler