ToshaMc said:
you are right I'm a horrible person
tasha, I don't know so much about horrible BUT I do know that you are not what you want people to think you are.
It's GREAT that you were up front about this snake BUT knowing the SCRUTINY you are under HOW could you be otherwise?
You are NOT stupid, dishonest, foolish, a tad pathetic, untrustworthy, yes to all of those but I really don't think you're stupid.
You KNOW that there are a few folks here who watch the ball python ads wherever they pop up and that YOU are on the radar all the time. What choice, really, did you have OTHER than to disclose all the facts about this snake?
I suspect that deep down you truly wish for the respect you pretend you have. You simply seem incapable of earning it. It's a pisspoor excuse that your house is being remodeled. Did this remodel come out of the blue? Was it unexpected that the workmen showed up, just magically appeared and started to demo your back room?
Perhaps this is a snake you should NOT have taken on. Eh, you make your bed then you get to LIE, figuratively as well as literally, in it.
You just don't seem to make good decisions and then when you get brought to public attention, surprise surprise there, you start the "justification dance" and girl, you ain't got no rhythm.
I'll be glad when this season is over and you fade into the background for a bit. I think some time to "season" as it were, will help you not only in regards to your reputation, which, to those who ACTUALLY know you, SUCKS, but will also give you time to come at balls, should you choose to keep working with them, from a different angle. I would recommend an angle that does NOT involve "outing" the bad guys, selling hets that are most likely imported normals and taking on more than you can handle.
Good luck, you need it.