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Bad Guy Eyelash Exotics
- Thread starter Canadian Samurai
- Start date
Bobby Douglass
Active member
It seems to me like she's trying to take the focus off herself and put it on you. You made a mistake but Lynn's attitude is the cause of all this. Don't let her make you feel like it's your fault. Welcome to the forum, by the way.
ThatWeirdGeckoGuy
Member
So, Lynn, does you boyfriend know about this thread or not? If Andrew DID send a threatening message, he should own in, and if he DID NOT, he should refute the statement.
Admittedly I cannot tell Andrew Schnell myself; He has me blocked because I've called him on crap before.
Admittedly I cannot tell Andrew Schnell myself; He has me blocked because I've called him on crap before.
chevyrumble55
Geckophile
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ThatWeirdGeckoGuy
Member
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LauraB
CLOSED ACCOUNT
Exactly, Bobby!
In fact, her behavior; texting Mike to get him here to explain that it's all his fault; is completely in keeping with the personality-type she's displayed here. It's totally predictable.
chevyrumble55
Geckophile
Crap, I hate when I incorrectly correct people. It's almost as embarrassing as trying to strong arm someone out a url by using facebook fans and threats of "big connections."
LauraB
CLOSED ACCOUNT
Mike (Surrey Reptiles) - I see you're still here. Go to bed, get some sleep ... don't worry about this crap now. 
I think she is going to have to go out and buy a jack so there is more room under the bus before this is all said and done.
ophidile
New member
FWIW, an apology tends to go something like "I'm very sorry, what I did was wrong, I wasn't thinking at the time, what can I do to fix things" or, if one cannot accept any wrongdoing despite a mountain of evidence, "I'm very sorry you felt attacked, how can I help resolve things?" rather than, "Geez, SOOOOOORRY everyone get over this already, also I totally didn't do any of that okay?" Maybe start by registering for a domain name that is not eyelashexotics.com but rather some acceptable variant. 
Even without all this nastiness Bob would never have been obligated to change anything about his site just because someone else decides they fancy the name, even if they asked super nicely.
Even without all this nastiness Bob would never have been obligated to change anything about his site just because someone else decides they fancy the name, even if they asked super nicely.
regd87
New member
""Lynn and I have some very big connections, including the biggest and best known names in the industry, and the biggest name in New Caledonian geckos in Canada. We can make sure you won't be able to buy any nice geckos from any well known breeders if you aren't careful. I would strongly advise issuing her an apology for the insult, or risk going nowhere in this hobby." This is the kind of thing I am talking about . why threaten me with slander and bouycott because you want my site and keep messaging me? This sort of thing should not be watched in idle while they continue to bully.
Andrew Schnell
10:54pm Jan 26 "
I am not 100% sure to what breeder this was about, probably just a poor attempt at bullying someone. To my knowledge, Northern Gecko has the largest collection of New Caledonian geckos in Canada and I feel comfortable in saying that we would never refuse sales to a valued customer over a business name dispute or any actions between two clients that has nothing to do with us.
Reg Desgroseilliers
Operations Manager
Northern Gecko Inc
[email protected]
Andrew Schnell
10:54pm Jan 26 "
I am not 100% sure to what breeder this was about, probably just a poor attempt at bullying someone. To my knowledge, Northern Gecko has the largest collection of New Caledonian geckos in Canada and I feel comfortable in saying that we would never refuse sales to a valued customer over a business name dispute or any actions between two clients that has nothing to do with us.
Reg Desgroseilliers
Operations Manager
Northern Gecko Inc
[email protected]
EA7770
Member
I don't know this Andrew Schnell guy (is he any relation to Jorge?) other than the fact that he's Lynn's boyfriend, but I agree. If he did email and threaten someone with his "big name" connections, he should man up and admit to it seeing as Lynn is taking all of the heat and that seems to be a big part of what people are pissed about. Whether he did it in defense of Lynn getting called a name or not is irrelevant. There's no excuse for threatening to blacklist someone or throw around "big names". Having been in this hobby for a very long time I can tell you that most of those "big names" want absolutely nothing to do with any sort of drama like this.
Mystic Exotics
New member
Mike, it was very noble of you coming forward like that, but Lynn is being called out for *her* actions, & if she was as sincere as she says she is, she wouldn't be asking others to take ownership for what she got called out for. Also, if she really was sincerely sorry, why did she continue to make flippant comments on fb about it?
Lynn, you reap what you sow, kiddo.
Lynn, you reap what you sow, kiddo.
ThatWeirdGeckoGuy
Member
Reg Desgroseilliers/Northern Gecko Inc,
I was -literally- going to your page now about this. I applaud your post.
I was -literally- going to your page now about this. I applaud your post.
eyelashexotics
New member
Seriously, I have apologized to bobby sincerely, and I posted a screenshot of it in the VERY FIRST PAGE of this post. I told him I didn't intend for anything like that to happen, told him I didn't want to start drama, took down the initial post nearly immediately and explained my intent. Not to take his domain name or sue him or anything.
He's the one who told me he's "heard sorry too many times from other people" and doesn't believe what I said. So what am I supposed to do? I refuse to admit to something I didn't do or intend to do.
I AM NOT apologizing to anyone here. I've already apologized to the ONLY person who needed to be talked to and he doesn't want to accept it, probably in hopes that my business would go to crap thanks to this 20 page BOI post.
I even apologized for everyone else's actions. I did not ask Mike to post on the BOI, I told Mike about the post on the BOI because of how ridiculous it got. I told him probably fifteen times that none of it could be blamed on him and that it was NOT HIS FAULT.
As far as Northern Gecko goes, I did not bring them into this whatsoever, nor did I use any other names, or even use the threat to "blacklist" the guy. I messaged bobby hoping that things could get worked out privately because I was aware of how immature and unprofessional this all came off. I can't even believe all this has gone so far, and I can't believe how many requests I have gotten from random people to apologize and to take responsibility, along with the insults. It has already happened. There is nothing more I can do. He wants to be mad at me for devising something I didn't. I can't change that.
He's the one who told me he's "heard sorry too many times from other people" and doesn't believe what I said. So what am I supposed to do? I refuse to admit to something I didn't do or intend to do.
I AM NOT apologizing to anyone here. I've already apologized to the ONLY person who needed to be talked to and he doesn't want to accept it, probably in hopes that my business would go to crap thanks to this 20 page BOI post.
I even apologized for everyone else's actions. I did not ask Mike to post on the BOI, I told Mike about the post on the BOI because of how ridiculous it got. I told him probably fifteen times that none of it could be blamed on him and that it was NOT HIS FAULT.
As far as Northern Gecko goes, I did not bring them into this whatsoever, nor did I use any other names, or even use the threat to "blacklist" the guy. I messaged bobby hoping that things could get worked out privately because I was aware of how immature and unprofessional this all came off. I can't even believe all this has gone so far, and I can't believe how many requests I have gotten from random people to apologize and to take responsibility, along with the insults. It has already happened. There is nothing more I can do. He wants to be mad at me for devising something I didn't. I can't change that.
eyelashexotics
New member
Ethan seriously? Stop harrassing me on facebook. Find something better to do with your time. This has been going on for WAY too long now.
eyelashexotics
New member
Didn't get called out for anything I hadn't apologized about.
I continue to be flippant on facebook because for the past several months, SOMEONE has been constantly harassing me under fake names (who is watching this thread as we speak) and I either get angry or just brush it off.
This, I decided to brush off because nobody believes me, even after the legitimate apology. So of course I got mad. My options are to either apologize for something I didn't do, or to sit here and listen to you all.
