Well, I've said it before, and I'll say it again, I just hate the thought of questioning someone about something as personal as the death of a loved one. I can't even believe I'm about to write what I am, but my suspicions have gotten the better of me, and I did some checking on my own.
When all of this got started, and I publically stated that I didn't think we should be delving into Fred's personal grief, I guess that made me his confidant (in his eyes), even though I had never said anything other than Fred was wrong and needed to make things right while he could. Anyway, Fred wrote me a PM that started off like this:
"Darin,
Ill make this simple. Same dad difefrent mother, my dad slept around and porduced another kid. I didnt know him well. HE also had a brother that perished in the crash. I didnt know him either."
Ok, I understand all about complicated family relations (insert your own hillbilly joke here____________), so I was willing to overlook the fact that if what Fred wrote above were true, then the man in question was his half-brother instead of a step-brother like he had been saying. However, terms sometimes get written down in a manner other than what we wanted to say, so I wasn't too suspicious from that alone.
However, what DID make me uneasy about Fred's story was that his half-brother also had a brother (supposedly not related to Fred, or he'd be talking about his TWO lost brothers and a niece), but THAT brother was named Albury too. Well, that didn't seem to fit, but, again, I wasn't wanting to delve into another person's misery, so I let it go as a wierd situation that probably had a wierd explanation.
But, when Fred showed his true character (or lack thereof) from his handling of these recent events, I decided to just read up on what happened in that crash. Fortunately, there was a write-up in USA Today about each of the victims of that tragedy, and the three Alburys were at the top of the list. Here is the link for that:
USAToday article
In that write-up, you'll notice that these Alburys were involved in a family business, and that it was their cousin, Frank Albury, who was lamenting their loss to the family and the community. So I got to thinking, "Maybe I understand the half vs. step brother slip up. Maybe I understand why a non-related, "kind of brother" also has the same name, but how in the world is there a COUSIN with that name, if Fred was only related to one of the killed Albury brothers???" That just makes no earthly sense whatsoever!
So, as I read that little write-up, an old, familiar feeling began to come over me. You know the one where you try to give someone the benefit of the doubt only to realize that you've been completely taken for a ride?!?!? Fred, I am still not comfotable calling you a flat-out liar on this, but man, if there is an explanation for all of this, you NEED to put it up now. If you don't respond in a relatively short amount of time, I'm afraid that I will have no choice but to conclude that you HAVE been lying about the death of a fictional "loved one" for the purposes of putting Landon, Ann, and who knows who else, on hold while you scammed them out of their money!!!! I don't want to believe that you'd be that much of a low-life Fred, as to trade off of other peoples' misery, but you're not leaving me/us much room to conclude otherwise!
Set this straight, and pay what you owe to whom you owe it NOW, Fred!
