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Has anyone dealt with Cameron or Ashley Glucheff

interesting reading....

Narcissistic Personality Disorder


The Disease Perspective
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (American Psychiatric Association, 1994, pg. 661) describes Narcissistic Personality Disorder as a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements);

is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love;

believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions);

requires excessive admiration;

has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations;

is interpersonally exploitive, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends;

lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others;

is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her;

shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.

Copyright © 1998-2004 Dave Kelly




How to cope with narcissists


FIVE DON'T DO'S: How to Avoid the Wrath of the Narcissist

Never disagree with the narcissist or contradict him

Never offer him any intimacy

Look awed by whatever attribute matters to him (for instance: by his professional achievements or by his good looks, or by his success with women and so on)

Never remind him of life out there and if you do, connect it somehow to his sense of grandiosity

Do not make any comment, which might directly or indirectly impinge on his self-image, omnipotence, judgement, omniscience, skills, capabilities, professional record, or even omnipresence. Bad sentences start with: "I think you overlooked ... made a mistake here ... you don't know ... do you know ... you were not here yesterday so ... you cannot ... you should ... (perceived as rude imposition, narcissists react very badly to restrictions placed on their freedom) ... I (never mention the fact that you are a separate, independent entity, narcissists regard others as extensions of their selves, their internalization processes were screwed up and they did not differentiate properly) ..." You get the gist of it.
Dr. Sam Vaknin




everthing is in my humble opinion only and may not be used in any way
 
Do they teach any classes on comming to grips with reality at Barstow College?

CGluhcheff said:
I would like to thank anyone who is stupid enough for admitting to driving by my house. When you posted it online your name is displayed so this will make it easy for the police to find you. I will be calling the Sheriff tomorrow and making a police report and you can expect a visit from them. By law they must investigate all accusations. I feel that when you drive by my house that you are coming by for no other reason than to stalk us. I also feel that the health and safety of my family is in danger and I will take all necessary means to protect them.
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Stalking? Dont flatter yourself Ashley. I travelled up to Victorville to attend the West Coast Reptile Show at the fairgrounds last weekend and drove right by your street on my way to observe herpetofauna in the desert. You have intruiged us so with your lifestyle ramblings that I just had to see how the other half lives. Which by the way wouldnt be that bad if you didnt have to drive through Thunderbird (Felony Flats) to get to your house! I bet Cameron has a blast hanging out with all of the nice people in THAT neighborhood "because it isn't cool to hang with your parents[...]" according to your little webpage. Which by the way is a good read. I would recomend it to anyone who would like to read a more humble autobiography of Mrs. Gluhcheff.

Quoted from http://www.bcconline.com/chld14/instruct.htm

My name is Ashley Gluhcheff. I currently teach preschool special education at Crestline Elementary School in Barstow. I am married and have three sons. My husband is in the National Guard and works full-time at FT Irwin. My oldest son is in middle school. He is not in the picture because it isn't cool to hang with your parents and the "babies" at Disneyland. He went with his friend to ride the big rides. My other sons are two and five years in age. I enjoy spending as much time with my family as possible. We go on a lot of day trips and on long weekends we enjoy going camping and riding our quads.
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I would think that someone as intelligent as yourself who works at such a prestigious institution as Barstow College would have a better grip on reality. But then again, what should we expect from someone who obtained her Masters Degree at "Muscoy State?"

Well, at least you are getting a proper online education now. Even if you cant seem to follow the syllabus in this class. Hurry along now and pay he fine with Camerons Paypal account. I am sure he will have no problem showing you how to use it!

I just want to address one more part of your idiotic rambling from above.

I also feel that the health and safety of my family is in danger and I will take all necessary means to protect them.
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If you want to protect them, you need to pay more attention to Camerons activities and offer some REAL punishment for his actions (no, Mrs Gluhcheff, a time out is not going to keep Cameron out of prison). If it wasnt for his ability to ditch his parents (because it isn't cool to hang with them) and carry on the way he has, we wouldnt be here watching you make a fool of yourself. It's a shame how someone who teaches the children of others cannot seem to teach her own children anything other than disrespect and self aggrandizement.

Have a nice day Mrs. Gluhcheff.
 
Heres the rest of her Autobiography.

Quoted from http://www.bcconline.com/chld14/instruct.htm

I graduated from Crafton Hills Community College in 1992 with my AA in liberal studies. I then attended Western New Mexico University and graduated in 1994 with my BS in elementary education. I was hired by BUSD as an elementary school teacher. I taught first and second grade at Cameron Elementary School for four years. While I was teaching I attended Cal State University, San Bernardino and received my Master's degree in Education. I started teaching part-time at Barstow Community College in 1996. I thought that I was finally done going to school but that soon changed in 1998 when I was offered a position to teach preschool special education with San Bernardino County Superintendent of Schools. I once again went back to school to get my special education credential. I really enjoy taking classes and I feel that in order to grown professionally I must continue my education. I am currently enrolled in classes at Cal State University, Northridge. I am working on my certificate to give in home support services to families of disabled children from birth to 3 years in age.
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I read her little bio a while back...

Is she getting her Ph.D from USC or from Cal State Northridge? Earlier she posted she was working on a Ph.D at USC, I was going to question her on that right after she posted it, but I figured why bother? ... everyone knows she is full of crap anyway! I bet they pay the fine with their platinum american express card!:sleeping:

Ro Hill
 
Hey, I'm prophetic!

When I read the first post about someone going past their house, I told my husband "Wait for it....this woman is just the type that will turn it into someone stalking her, and she'll be filing with the police."

Sorry I was right.

Once again, nothing that will go very far, but I'm sure she'll be ranting and raving about it for awhile.

Funny, if she was so concerned about her personal safety (and that of her children), why did she announce here that she'll be honored at a dinner in a couple of weeks and give the location?? Does she not believe that people could have found out exactly what date and time her award was going to be presented?

*sigh* What a huge annoyance she is. At least Cameron has an excuse for his immaturity.
 
For someone who's father is an attorney....

This woman knows absolutely NOTHING about the law!

Here is the actual letter of the law regarding stalking in California. As if accusing someone of stalking because they drove by your house doesnt sound rediculous enough, a simple reading of the law will convince even the most paranoid skeptic that Mrs. Gluhcheff is playing without a full deck.

Notice how MANY criteria have to be met to establish stalking! Most importantly, a "pattern of conduct" AND a "credible threat" HAS to be met for stalking to apply. For those who do not want to read the whole document, read this...


(1) "Pattern of conduct" means conduct composed of a series of
acts over a period of time, however short, evidencing a continuity of
purpose. Constitutionally protected activity is not included within
the meaning of "pattern of conduct."
(2) "Credible threat" means a verbal or written threat...



:lol01:

Try real hard to convince a law enforcement official that either of these definitions have been met Mrs Gluhcheff! But please try not to threaten to sue them (you are soooo predictable) when he/she sends you packing.

The following is from http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/waisgate?WAISdocID=57610523099+0+0+0&WAISaction=retrieve

1708.7.

(a) A person is liable for the tort of stalking when the
plaintiff proves all of the following elements of the tort:
(1) The defendant engaged in a pattern of conduct the intent of
which was to follow, alarm, or harass the plaintiff. In order to
establish this element, the plaintiff shall be required to support
his or her allegations with independent corroborating evidence.
(2) As a result of that pattern of conduct, the plaintiff
reasonably feared for his or her safety, or the safety of an
immediate family member. For purposes of this paragraph, "immediate
family" means a spouse, parent, child, any person related by
consanguinity or affinity within the second degree, or any person who
regularly resides, or, within the six months preceding any portion
of the pattern of conduct, regularly resided, in the plaintiff's
household.
(3) One of the following:
(A) The defendant, as a part of the pattern of conduct specified
in paragraph (1), made a credible threat with the intent to place the
plaintiff in reasonable fear for his or her safety, or the safety of
an immediate family member and, on at least one occasion, the
plaintiff clearly and definitively demanded that the defendant cease
and abate his or her pattern of conduct and the defendant persisted
in his or her pattern of conduct.
(B) The defendant violated a restraining order, including, but not
limited to, any order issued pursuant to Section 527.6 of the Code
of Civil Procedure, prohibiting any act described in subdivision (a).

(b) For the purposes of this section:
(1) "Pattern of conduct" means conduct composed of a series of
acts over a period of time, however short, evidencing a continuity of
purpose. Constitutionally protected activity is not included within
the meaning of "pattern of conduct."
(2) "Credible threat" means a verbal or written threat, including
that communicated by means of an electronic communication device, or
a threat implied by a pattern of conduct or a combination of verbal,
written, or electronically communicated statements and conduct, made
with the intent and apparent ability to carry out the threat so as to
cause the person who is the target of the threat to reasonably fear
for his or her safety or the safety of his or her immediate family.
(3) "Electronic communication device" includes, but is not limited
to, telephones, cellular telephones, computers, video recorders, fax
machines, or pagers. "Electronic communication" has the same
meaning as the term defined in Subsection 12 of Section 2510 of Title
18 of the United States Code.
(4) "Harass" means a knowing and willful course of conduct
directed at a specific person which seriously alarms, annoys,
torments, or terrorizes the person, and which serves no legitimate
purpose. The course of conduct must be such as would cause a
reasonable person to suffer substantial emotional distress, and must
actually cause substantial emotional distress to the person.
(c) A person who commits the tort of stalking upon another is
liable to that person for damages, including, but not limited to,
general damages, special damages, and punitive damages pursuant to
Section 3294.
(d) In an action pursuant to this section, the court may grant
equitable relief, including, but not limited to, an injunction.
(e) The rights and remedies provided in this section are
cumulative and in addition to any other rights and remedies provided
by law.
(f) This section shall not be construed to impair any
constitutionally protected activity, including, but not limited to,
speech, protest, and assembly.
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Have a nice day Mrs Gluhcheff. Please let me know if you need any further legal tutorials.

:bleep:
 
Interesting

I wonder if they go to enough forums will they finally understand the logic people have been presenting them with?

That if they wanted the snake to go to a third party, and the snake died while in the third parties care (after said party acknowledged the animal appeared fine), that the seller ceased to be responsible for anything beyond that point.

It's an expensive lesson, but in the future they should only purchase the animal if they can complete the transaction themselves, and in a reasonable time frame.
 
I noticed the time in which the "friend" had the snake went down by a day. Perhaps next thread found will be he only had the snake two days.
Trying trying trying to get someone to say seller was wrong.
Really should give it up and get on with their lives.
 
Here is what was posted on the other site..

My friend bought a snake off of reptibid.com. It was a Hypo Boa. He had it sent to a very reliable friend while he was at school. On saturday we went to the Victorville show to see the varieties of reptiles. Thats when he went to get the snake from the friend. When he got it the snake was dead. He took pics of it and there was a kink in the snakes neck. But the problem is the friend called up Scott and confermed that the snake was in perfect health. We dont know whos fault it is because the snake was fed regularly by the friend which is a reptile owner also.
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My favorite part of this post is the last sentence. "We dont know whos fault it is because the snake was fed regularly.. "

How "regularly" could he have fed it? He only had the snake for 3 or 4 days. What, did he feed it EVERY DAY? Give me a break. These people just keep digging themselves deeper and deeper. Yet, the do not even realize it.
 
Oh oh...

I just noticed my boa has a "kink" in her neck! Who can I sue?

:rotflmao:


Ro Hill
 

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I will start off by saying, that I only came here, to read this, because of what was posted on the other site.

If any of you would like more info on Cameron, read his posts on the other site. He has over 1500. There are quite a few things that was said here, that DO NOT go with what he has said over there. Just goes to show how much he is willing to bend his story.

This just amazes me. I have know Cam on the other forum for quite some time, and this just amazes me.

*rubs eyes* Loooooooong thread LOL

Virginia
 
Here is somehting that Cameron's mother should read. It's the terms of service for her verizon account.

3.3 You agree that you are responsible for all use on your account, including any secondary accounts or sub-accounts registered to your primary account. You understand this means that you accept full liability and responsibility for the actions of anyone who uses the Service via your account, or any secondary accounts, with or without your permission. You also agree to use the Service only within the United States.
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taken from http://www2.verizon.net/policies/tos.asp

By continueing to user her isp she is essentially agreeing to be responsible for anything that anyone using her account does.

Ray Davis
 
I wonder if his Mom knows he has a "hot". This Cameron boy is milking a "hot" said that he went through a week of training and got the "hot" free from a vet with whom he has volunteered time.
YET, he doesn't know when a necropsy is done???

Is is just me or is there something terribly wrong with this picture?
Yeppers, Mom is a VERY dedicated mother and watches for her sons safety. I can see how most Mothers would allow their child to have a "hot" snake that could easily kill their kid.
Mom really needs to stop placing the blame elsewhere and look in the mirror, and her sons mirror while she is at it.
 
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