Randy,
This is where you should perhaps leave law to the lawyers and not pretend to have a clue as to what you don't know. Interstate commerce is the exclusive province of the federal government and state laws are trumped by them 100% of the time. In fact, it is one of the few prerogatives of the federal government as defined in the constitution of the United States. Now you keep saying it's well defined. Show me statute and don't cop out by saying you aren't going to look it up for me. You are so certain, show the source or you're only blowing so much hot air. Your experience with cattle and horses is hardly relevant to exotic, non-domesticated animals, which all reptiles are. Like I said, show me the law which says that I cannot waive my right to live arrival by agreeing to someone else's TOS. If you can I will believe it, until then, I believe that it is a simple matter of contracting concerning who is responsible for an item and can be negotiated and agreed to between buyer and seller like virtually any other matter.