IMO, I think this thread show go away and let Alan, Rich, and Jeff work out whatever problems there are.
Why??? Isn't the BOI all about this sort of thing???
Alan, I tried to read whatever it is that you wrote in your last reply but have to admit I couldn't follow all of it. Whatever.
In the thread in the hell forum where we crossed blades, my only goal was to try to point out the problem when ethics and greed (or call it "the desire to succeed in business" if you like) come at odds with each other. I never considered you really a bad guy, just someone who has extreme myopia in the issue I was trying to present.
But can you honestly say that the email you sent your buds reflects you in a very kind light??? Why did you send that to them? For their approval? For them to get chuckles over how cool you really are? How smart of a business man you are to turn this windfall that befell you into a "business" bonus for you???
If you had been simply toying with the idea of contacting Jeffie about what you found then I guess we could all say you were just huffing and puffing with no real intent at doing malicious harm. But you didn't do it that way, did you? If Jeffie had immediately said "Sure, Alan, I'll give you anything you want right now, so give me that info." You would have done it, wouldn't you? All for the sake of business??? You would have gladly sent Rich and Fauna down the hopper, and for what?
That is it with you isn't it? It's all about your business and to hell with everything else. Tell me, Alan, why should we all not believe that everything you have said in this thread is nothing more than attempted damage control? Would you lie to protect your business? Would you lie to try to save your business? Do you want me to post a poll so you can see what sort of credibility you still have remaining? Heck, why not do it yourself. It might be interesting.
So why did you want to do something that you hoped would destroy Rich and this site??? I read that thread that was in the hidden forum you spoke of. Big deal. I've had much worse said about me on this site in public by wilomn. That never made me want to go out and attempt to destroy him or anything he has. So either you have a very thin skin or there must be another reason you would do what that pm I got says you wanted to do. If you have that thin of a skin, what in the world would you have plotted to do if Rich or anyone else had actually said something that was seriously bad mouthing you??? Torture? Murder? How are you going to react to people who may post uncomplimentary things about you on the BOI? The same that you wanted to do to Rich and Fauna?
So no, SPJ, I believe this thread is right where it belongs. It is an exposure of the person behind a name and a real good look at how the mind of that person works. A person who some people may be thinking about doing business with that really should know who they are dealing with.
So no, Alan, I don't wish you any harm. I just think you need to grow up some and reassess your values. There is more to life and living than just your business.