Yeah, my point was just that with nothing documented about the situation as to WHY Mark accepted the return of the animal, the TOS may or may not still be valid. Big breeders aside (that may have clouded what I wanted to convey).
It's a very sticky situation. If Mark caused the animal's demise by a force feeding gone wrong, is he at fault? If he doesn't have proof that he was ONLY trying to get the animal healthy again for John, what is to show that he didn't accept it as a return?
If, if, if, if Mark said "send back the snake, I'll make it right", we may never know. I also agree that the snake should have gone to the vet, but again, if Mark told John "I'll take care of it", and we don't know he didn't... sigh.
Still. Regardless of the real reason Mark accepted the snake, he was in possession of it when it died and there is no necropsy to prove why it died. If he had stuck to the letter of his TOS, he would not have had the snake in his possession again, looking at just the 'letter of the law' so to speak.
Unfortunately, documentation is important. If you trust someone's word, they shouldn't have a problem putting their words on paper when push comes to shove. A simple email "I am shipping the snake to you, Mark, per our conversation earlier because..." or likewise Mark writing "John, I received your snake and in an effort to get it healthy I will..." detailing their expectations... well, this wouldn't be an issue now.
I hope both John and Mark can conclude this amicably. Unfortunately, Mark indicating that he would wait for legal action to resolve the situation means that both will be out a lot more money before it gets resolved, rather than coming to a compromise here. And also unfortunately, Mark was in possession of the snake, so likely he will not win from a legal aspect.
It sucks to have to break this down so coldly, but in speaking about terms of service, and if they are broken or upheld, a court won't really care about Mark caring only about the welfare of the snake. He accepted responsibility when he accepted the snake back.
Just more of my opinions. You don't have to agree with 'em!
